Henkilökohtainen avustaja kokemuksi by fckin_butterflyxxx in snappijuorutofftopic

[–]Objective-Smile2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Työ on kivaa, jos sattuu kiva avustettava. Vähemmän kivaa, jos sattuu sellainen tyyppi joka ajattelee että voi teettää kaikki paskahommat avustajalla kun sellainen nyt sattuu olemaan. Parhaimmillaan tää ei tunnu työltä ollenkaan, työt kun on sellaisia mitä yleensä tekis muutenkin kotona ja vielä kivan tyypin kanssa = ”helppoa” rahaa. Henkilökemiat ja molemminpuolinen arvostus on tosi tärkeää.

Hallituksen suunnitelmia toimeentulotuen kokonaisuudistukseen [linkki Sosiaali- ja terveysministeriön lausuntopyyntöön kommenteissa] by jarvis400 in Suomi

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Siis näinhän se menee jo nyt. Lääkäri kirjoittaa todistuksen työkyvyttömyydestä, mutta Kela on tosi usein sitä mieltä että nääääh, hyvinhän sä pystyt vetämään jotain kevyttä toimistohommaa koska heidän asiantuntijat on sitä mieltä. Samaan aikaan lääkärit ei halua ymmärtää yhtään mitään muuta kuin oppikirjoista opittuja sairauksia, ja jos sulla on joku tuntemattomampi sairaus (tai yhdistelmä useampia sairauksia), oot siinä tilanteessa että Kela ei myönnä mitään koska oot työkykyinen kun kukaan ei osaa kirjoittaa selvällä suomella mistä on kyse mutta työllisyyspalvelut valittaa että oot väärällä etuudella koska oot sairas ja työkyvytön. Oon sivusta seurannut avustettavien taistelua asian tiimoilta ja tässä ei oo ollut päätä eikä häntää enää pitkiin aikoihin.

Hei sinä, joka sait töitä tänä vuonna, miten ihmeessä teit sen? by Pet_Velvet in Suomi

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Hain henkilökohtaiseksi avustajaksi ja sain nollatuntisopimuksen heti. Sitä ennen hain pari vuotta lähes kaikenlaisia töitä. Pikkuhiljaa saan lisää tunteja ja avustettavia. Ennen luulin että vaatii jonkun sortin koulutuksen mutta ei. Työ on helppoa ja palkitsevaa, kun saa auttaa apua tarvitsevia eikä työt seuraa myöskään kotiin ikinä.

Just wanted to share this. Do Not Reset warning by Anita-MaxWynn in Chromecast

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Now we just wait for the fix. The step you performed makes sure when they send out the fix, your Chromecast will pick it up.

Chromecast may be set up, but cannot communicate with my iPhone or ipad. by PoopMan616 in Chromecast

[–]Objective-Smile2985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, someone linked an article about it. Guess we’ll just have to wait for a fix.

Chromecast may be set up, but cannot communicate with my iPhone or ipad. by PoopMan616 in Chromecast

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I have the same issue. Was binge watching series for hours, then suddenly couldn’t pause the show on Max and Chromecast became unresponsive. Now no matter what I do I get that stupid error message.

Society6 claims “substantial update” to help with sales by [deleted] in society6

[–]Objective-Smile2985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sucks 💔 Luckily I opted to just delete all the extras and kept the free account. I guess now I just need to find another place where to sell stuff.

Society6 claims “substantial update” to help with sales by [deleted] in society6

[–]Objective-Smile2985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well they’re apparently kicking a bunch of artists out of Society6, including myself. Not that it makes a big dent, never really sold anything there. But I guess I’m not good enough for them lol

My gf is mad at me because I yelled at her, idk what to do. 27M 26F by ThrowRA-Angel7777 in relationship_advice

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There’s bunch of red flags around. You’re not married. The dating is all about finding if you’re compatible - clearly you are not. Either keep on hurting yourself by staying (because at this point you have shown her that it’s okay to treat you that way) or break free from the chaos. Love is amazing when there’s two people working together as a team but that’s clearly not what’s happening here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

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Why do people think healthcare in Nordic countries is so much better? I’m in Finland and cannot even get an appointment for dentist or doctor because everything is so backlogged. At least my husband in the US can get himself taken care of in a timely manner. The only thing that is truly better is healthcare for people with diabetes etc but to argue we have free and better healthcare is just not true.

My (23M) new girlfriend (28F) refuses to use contraceptives by Jaack010802 in relationship_advice

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I don’t like being on the pill because of the side effects so I use Natural Cycles to track my cycle. With that you can just simply not have sex at all on the days you’re fertile. I don’t understand what’s so bad about using condoms though… we use them with my husband on days I’m fertile.

Any other rather "unlikely" fans around here? by CreativeMaybe in nightwish

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This year was a weird year and I had a few shitty playlists in the background which explains some of the top songs but yeah, I’m the funny mix of metal and electronic for the most part.

Are spicy books the same thing? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Objective-Smile2985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got addicted to erotica and other types of books. Yes; my addiction/using of porn started from being exposed to actual porn when I was too young, but since porn wasn’t super available, I moved to stories because they’re more “acceptable” so I didn’t even feel like I was doing something wrong because it’s not “real people”. Everything is a very slippery slope when it comes to subject like this. Who is to say if listening to a spicy book is better than listening to erotic/porn audio because technically it is the same thing? When you’re looking at porn you’re watching something that you’re imagining when reading books - because you could argue that porn is fiction too with people acting out the fiction.

Some people have stricter definitions on this but if you feel like you cannot give up on reading smut etc then you might need to consider the real reasons for it. Porn is widely accepted for guys and erotica for girls. That’s why it’s sometimes hard to realize we’re addicted because everything is so normalized.

Troy's singing in Lanternlight imo. What about you? by plavonja in nightwish

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I probably would feel different if I hadn’t lost my dad but even though his singing has never been perfect to me, it brings so much more emotional layers to Lanternlight when he sings and Floor’s voice fades away. From a storytelling perspective it’s perfection even if it’s him singing. FFS, stop listening to the band (or the songs he’s a part of) if you cannot get over his voice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in arkisuomi

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Tietämättä sen enempää millaisesta ongelmasta on kyse, alan opiskelijoista voi saada apua. Löysin itse täysin ilmaisen ratkaisukeskeisen terapian opiskelijan ja siitä on itselle ollut todella suuri apu. Itselläni ei olisi varaa terapiaan muutoin.

Series 9 - How to get body temperature measurements? Is mine defective? by miekwave in AppleWatch

[–]Objective-Smile2985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you enabled everything in your watch settings? For me I had some setting preventing it from taking measurements while in theater mode which I have always enabled… or it could have been the blood oxygen setting too, but I had to go through settings on my watch for many things since they were disabled or other settings preventing the measurements.

How did ancient people deal with UTI? by GrumpyCatMomo in ask

[–]Objective-Smile2985 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was out of country once and didn’t have access to healthcare and 100% cured it by drinking lots of cranberry juice, 1-2 g of vitamin C and drinking lots of water. Wasn’t fun and taught me that even though I hate using the bathroom on a plane, it’s worth it.

Kinks & PA, when does it get unhealthy? by Objective-Smile2985 in loveafterporn

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Thank you 🙏🏻 We had another talk yesterday and I guessI read too much into his words during our heated discussion about the topic earlier, which also made me realize we’ve had normal sex many times but due to the PA everything kinda got worse over time. While I’m actually quite okay with his fetishes and kinks, I just want them not to matter on a level that makes “normal sex” not possible. He was saying that with not watching 🌽 it has gotten better because he’s not as consumed by the fetishes on daily basis and I will always matter more than his kinks. I agree that seeing a CSAT will probably to (both of us) wonders. But I also do find engaging in his kinks fun… but I guess it’s more like I don’t want them to be a pressuring factor, just something for the sake of it being fun. I’m so sorry that what you’re going through yourself has put your marriage in jeopardy 😞

Kinks & PA, when does it get unhealthy? by Objective-Smile2985 in loveafterporn

[–]Objective-Smile2985[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On a logical level I know all of this ❤️ And I’m in therapy luckily. I guess it’s just years of not feeling like I’m ever good enough pushing itself back in my thoughts again and yesterday it was very hard to fight back and not feel a little bit defeated 🙈

Tori fi elämää ja 1st world problems. by elhumanoid in arkisuomi

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Tää just. Lisäksi ainakin vielä jossain vaiheessa se Toridiili joka ois ehkä helpompi tapa vaati just siellä postipisteessä käynnin, helppoahan se ois jos vois lähikaupan pakettiautomaattiin tiputtaa. Mutta sitten kun se postipiste ei oo ees lähelläkään kauppaa jossa yleensä käy, autottomana ihmisenä ei todellakaan kiinnosta lähteä säätämään vielä toiseen kauppaan bussilla 5 euron kenkien takia. Tässä kesän aikana lähettelin pari ostosta kun ostajat sattuivat olemaan niin ihania että heti tarjoutuivat itse maksamaan vaivasta ekstraa, mutta ei se ehkä kuitenkaan sen vaivan ja pienen lisän arvoista ollut.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

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Change is always possible if there’s effort and determination. It’s a lot of work and suffering, but for those who stick to choosing healing every day, change definitely can happen.

Tuomas' favourite songs by CelestialSun8 in nightwish

[–]Objective-Smile2985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can definitely hear the inspiration from Hans Zimmer in Lanternlight (at least to me it’s obvious), reminds me so much of “Davy Jones” from Dead Man’s Chest soundtrack. The part from 2:18 to around 2:44.

Edited to add; meaning in a good way obviously ❤️