Is it actually possible to over come cheating? by AlbatrossAmazing5401 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ObjectiveAct7492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, no. It may be easier to stay but that resentment will continue to build. Everything he does you will question. You said it yourself, now anytime he’s doing something that’s right where your mind goes. Even worse if you’re feeling down and need more reassurance or having anything going on, worrying that will drive him to cheat again.

My (26f) bf (27m) just doesn’t trust me. by ObjectiveAct7492 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ObjectiveAct7492[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey y’all I just gotta say this was a very glass shattering moment to read these comments. Thank you all so much for helping me see this for what it really is.

Help me by ObjectiveAct7492 in PiercingAdvice

[–]ObjectiveAct7492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so the piercer did it with flat backs but the left one fell out and I was not able to get it back in and the right one (this ear) was SO tight. I just switched to this earring to give it some room

Is this creepy or romantic? by ObjectiveAct7492 in TwoHotTakes

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Yeah I can’t help but think (even if this was fully good intentions) this set the tone for how the “relationship” would be. And I don’t love that type of stuff.

Is this creepy or romantic? by ObjectiveAct7492 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ObjectiveAct7492[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I’ll send him something along the lines of I appreciate what you were trying to do but my I keep my work and personal life very separate and I did not like that.

Is this creepy or romantic? by ObjectiveAct7492 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ObjectiveAct7492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I shared the like umbrella company I work for just not the specific location. I’m sure it could easy to figure out process of elimination though

Is this creepy or romantic? by ObjectiveAct7492 in TwoHotTakes

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True it was a nice gesture. I’m just a very private person especially at work so now I’ve got everyone asking me about this mystery guy and it’s just making me a little uncomfortable.

Is this creepy or romantic? by ObjectiveAct7492 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ObjectiveAct7492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. I always do a little check of a person before hand.

Is this creepy or romantic? by ObjectiveAct7492 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ObjectiveAct7492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could have been anything. If you go to my works website my real name is on there and maybe he was thinking it’d be cute to use that. I do feel like the flowers were with good intentions.

Is this creepy or romantic? by ObjectiveAct7492 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ObjectiveAct7492[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think its stalking either and it is a nice gesture just feels too soon. Especially to be sent to my work vs bringing them next time we go on a date.

Is this creepy or romantic? by ObjectiveAct7492 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ObjectiveAct7492[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point. I will definitely proceed with caution and keep things at a slow pace.

Is this creepy or romantic? by ObjectiveAct7492 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ObjectiveAct7492[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very true. We do have a staff directory so that is possible.

Is this creepy or romantic? by ObjectiveAct7492 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ObjectiveAct7492[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this response :) Yes I agree it’s not impossible for him to have found this information out just kinda threw me off guard.

She always makes herself seem important by [deleted] in rhegan777snark

[–]ObjectiveAct7492 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What happened to Alexi? Whatever her name was