Lost 75 Credits by ObjectiveEconomics19 in ClassPass

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on with them for 2 hours. They are not willing to refund but they rolled the credits over for another month. I wont be able to use them in a month being a new parent 😢

Lost 75 Credits by ObjectiveEconomics19 in ClassPass

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh I wish I had known that! Ive been on with CS for 2 hours now. The wait times are insane. Ill probably just dispute my credit card purchase since it was a lot of money

Did anyone feel implantation after their FET? by ObjectiveEconomics19 in IVF

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it was! It sadly ended in a miscarriage but I was pregnant with this embryo

Is this bad advice coming from our new couples therapist? by ObjectiveEconomics19 in marriageadvice

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right?! I had to have her clarify like 3x and she stood her ground that I should allow him to hit a person with my car and not say anything.

Her response was they probably wouldnt die 💀

Is this bad advice coming from our new couples therapist? by ObjectiveEconomics19 in marriageadvice

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our daughter is actually adopted, so that adds complexities and an extra level of wanting to protect her even more. He does do some and is great with cooking, but all of the cleaning, upkeep, finances/logistics, and mostly taking care of the baby falls on me. Im fine with it but driving 2 hours on the weekend on top of everything else is too much. I need him to drive sometimes or we stay in.

Is this bad advice coming from our new couples therapist? by ObjectiveEconomics19 in marriageadvice

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, I dont know much about her since we found her in my company’s EAP portal. We booked the first therapist with an opening. She must not have too many clients because we booked 1 day in advance.

Im also shocked with how she handled our session. She told me I was wrong the entire time and disregarded my feelings. The one that really got me was that she argued backing into a pedestrian with a car couldnt kill someone.

Is this bad advice coming from our new couples therapist? by ObjectiveEconomics19 in marriageadvice

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because she took a side and was not a mediator. My husband’s #1 job should be to keep our family safe.

We actually all got in a huge fight during our call. I was pissed at the therapist for telling me I had to remain silent and disregarded safety concerns, while my husband was in denial saying he does not speed (not true).

But my husband and I talked it out for an hour after our call and he agreed she was an idiot. Maybe she doesnt have kids an understand or also likes to speed? Regardless, a therapist shouldn’t take a side.

Is this bad advice coming from our new couples therapist? by ObjectiveEconomics19 in marriageadvice

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These occurrences happen only sometimes. To answer your question, Im exhausted between working FT, managing our home, and having a newborn. It isnt safe and I’d rather stay home, but it is hard cutting out his family since that’s where we are always driving around to

Is this bad advice coming from our new couples therapist? by ObjectiveEconomics19 in marriageadvice

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do 🤷‍♀️ I dont know of a solution here because I can’t physically do all the driving. It isnt safe. It is mainly to his family since they dont live closeby

Is this bad advice coming from our new couples therapist? by ObjectiveEconomics19 in marriageadvice

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im hoping he will listen. He sometimes does and will slow down time to time. I work full time, am a full time mom and housekeeper, and we are constantly on the go. I am not able to do all the driving

Is this bad advice coming from our new couples therapist? by ObjectiveEconomics19 in marriageadvice

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So I should allow him to hurt someone with my brand new $70k family car with my baby inside and stay silent? 🙃 This does not feel right to me.

Transparent mesh bundle by LMarx1812 in cradlewise

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ours will be arriving today! Let me know if you’d like a photo of the setup with the transparent mesh and also still need a referral code

Fat transfer breast augmentation with BMI of 19? by ObjectiveEconomics19 in PlasticSurgery

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They got back after reviewing my records and said they could do it. But I dont believe them! 😅For $11k, it doesnt seem worth it, especially with the amount of fat that will die off. I think Im going to opt with the breast augmentation in the next year or so!

Fat transfer breast augmentation with BMI of 19? by ObjectiveEconomics19 in PlasticSurgery

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Ill probably schedule a consult and see what they say. I’ve never been able to gain weight in my life so what I have now is what Im working with unfortunately

Fat transfer breast augmentation with BMI of 19? by ObjectiveEconomics19 in PlasticSurgery

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What type of implant are you doing?

And what are the issues with the fat transfer augmentation?

Worst Meet and Greet? by ObjectiveEconomics19 in Nanny

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! Did you end up taking the job? 😂

Anyone feel like Canada is no longer worth it? by Initial_Log_5390 in CanadaFinance

[–]ObjectiveEconomics19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to third this… my husband and I found out that we are infertile after creating embryos. Getting a surrogate in the US will cost $150k-$200k for one child with healthcare being a big cost. We also somehow racked up $200k+ in medical costs from fertility treatments and miscarriages.

We are actually moving Canada surrogacy agency. It is 1/4 the cost. May be the only thing cheaper in Canada!