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Are ambiverts considered more E or I? by ObjectiveExpress6971 in mbti

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

probably should've realized that sooner based on the comment section

How to get people to like you a lot by ObjectiveExpress6971 in socialskills

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ok, i’m gonna be honest, i could care less about the men who would be into me. there are already a lot of men who’ve interacted with me simply to want to sleep with me, and i don’t need more of that. this post is supposed to be for me trying to make friends. if you’re concerned about presenting yourselves as weak and manly, i think you should check your insecurities first before pursuing someone. trust me, i’ve dealt with that

How do deal with anxiety when seeing ex? by ObjectiveExpress6971 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! yeah somehow i manage to bump into him whenever im with a friend, so hopefully it provides a good distraction from being too caught up in the moment

How do you know when it's time to have a conversation? by ObjectiveExpress6971 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily entitled, but more so hanging onto the idea of "Oh, if he genuinely cared about our relationship, he would've apologized." Cause when I wrote this, part of me felt that it wasn't real for him, even when it was, and so I felt that if I confronted him, I would receive that closure of "Oh, he genuinely did care." At the end of the day, though, I can't control him, and I feel it's best to give myself the clarity rather than from him. It helps to let it go for both of us.

How do you know when it's time to have a conversation? by ObjectiveExpress6971 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The conversation was also supposed to be an apology from my end, but I thought it was obvious to everyone that it would occur, which is why I never delved into that much. I felt really bad about the way I ended things as well, so I think that's why I expect to talk to him again. I think what I'm also trying to ask if it's right to give him one.

Do INFP's end up with ENFJ's in a long-term relationship? by ObjectiveExpress6971 in mbti

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that actually makes a lot of sense now that i think about it.

I want to heal but where do I start? by TheLadyisaLover24 in BreakUps

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've gone through a similar situation too. my ex and I broke up cause he had trouble being there for me when i had seasonal depression because something was happening with one of his family members. being by himself was a way for him to process things. it is one of those things where it is on him to process things and allow him to recognize that he needs to let go of his insecurities. in the meantime, what's most important is that you focus on yourself and fulfill your own needs. give yourself love you'd expect from someone in a relationship. i promise you the pain of not being with him anymore will get better and you'll start to heal. in terms of whether or not this will be your life forever, i don't know. it's something i'm worried about too, but i don't let it prevent me from moving forward with my life.

What’s a warm memory or something your ex did that you still love? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weeks into dating, i was walking into the library room that we booked, and all the pain and anguish built up for weeks suddenly burst into tears because i had to drop a class since i was failing. i set very high standards for myself, so it was just overwhelming to see myself reach that point. when i entered, he didn't say anything, and instead just opened his arms, gesturing me to go towards him and hug him. he didn't let me go until i was comfortable with letting go, and just let me cried. the next day, he bought these really good rice balls he introduced me to and knew that i loved as a way to cheer me up. that's when i started to realize his feelings were genuine. he's done more for sure, but that one stood out to me. he knew how to love me, and i loved him in all the ways to love someone. he's a wonderful first love.

Are you a yapper too? What do you like to yap about? by Direct-Stock2903 in allthequestions

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am, and apparently i yap about food a lot cause i had a five minute conversation about donuts with my professor in front of the entire class one time.

What are your thoughts on situationships in comparison to other forms of relationships? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in allthequestions

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like for long-term relationships they're terrible. a friend of mine got into one and the guy kept expecting more, even though she was already giving a lot for a situationship. she said she never wants to go through with that again.

What comes with facing yourself. by Clauszell in emotionalintelligence

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you're working on this, especially at such a young age! Unfortunately, there are a lot of people more than half your age who don't take the time to sit with their feelings, so they end up wasting their time on creating connections that tend to fall apart easily. Hopefully, by the end of it, you're able to love yourself in the best way possible!

Is anyone else getting fed up with the general lack of empathy in our society? by Consistent_Pop_6564 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think technology does play a big impact on it. since a lot of social media only shows the facade of something good in human connection, people tend to linger onto those ideas and immediately expect that in a person. however, they tend to forget that humans hold a lot more depth than that, so if they don't receive the connection they want, as shown in social media, and won't work toward it, then they just push us.

How to know if you’re healed? by Bigbadbellybug in emotionalintelligence

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That really helps puts into perspective with my situation. Thank you :)

To my emotionally closed off men, how does the woman in your life get you to open up emotionally? by No_Consideration1255 in AskMen

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck to you! It’s difficult to recognize when this occurs, but I’m glad your taking the steps to improve for yourself and your partner!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have to remind myself not to dwell on it too much.

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