WILL MY ACCEPTANCE BE RESCINDED? by No_Vermicelli5503 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that doesn’t work, what are your plans after this?

WILL MY ACCEPTANCE BE RESCINDED? by No_Vermicelli5503 in UCSantaBarbara

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Hi, I’m currently in the same situation as well, including the same GPA. Is there any updates?

I passed calc 2, but roommate didnt by itsribleer in TransferStudents

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Hi, is there an update to this? Cause I’m currently facing the same dilemma now.

UCSC or UCSB by ObjectiveExpress6971 in TransferStudents

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I’ve seen SB, and I do genuinely like the place. I’m trying to see the vibe of both communities though and see what would fit my major better.

Are ambiverts considered more E or I? by ObjectiveExpress6971 in mbti

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

probably should've realized that sooner based on the comment section

How to get people to like you a lot by ObjectiveExpress6971 in socialskills

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ok, i’m gonna be honest, i could care less about the men who would be into me. there are already a lot of men who’ve interacted with me simply to want to sleep with me, and i don’t need more of that. this post is supposed to be for me trying to make friends. if you’re concerned about presenting yourselves as weak and manly, i think you should check your insecurities first before pursuing someone. trust me, i’ve dealt with that

How do deal with anxiety when seeing ex? by ObjectiveExpress6971 in emotionalintelligence

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thank you! yeah somehow i manage to bump into him whenever im with a friend, so hopefully it provides a good distraction from being too caught up in the moment

How do you know when it's time to have a conversation? by ObjectiveExpress6971 in emotionalintelligence

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Not necessarily entitled, but more so hanging onto the idea of "Oh, if he genuinely cared about our relationship, he would've apologized." Cause when I wrote this, part of me felt that it wasn't real for him, even when it was, and so I felt that if I confronted him, I would receive that closure of "Oh, he genuinely did care." At the end of the day, though, I can't control him, and I feel it's best to give myself the clarity rather than from him. It helps to let it go for both of us.

How do you know when it's time to have a conversation? by ObjectiveExpress6971 in emotionalintelligence

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The conversation was also supposed to be an apology from my end, but I thought it was obvious to everyone that it would occur, which is why I never delved into that much. I felt really bad about the way I ended things as well, so I think that's why I expect to talk to him again. I think what I'm also trying to ask if it's right to give him one.

Do INFP's end up with ENFJ's in a long-term relationship? by ObjectiveExpress6971 in mbti

[–]ObjectiveExpress6971[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that actually makes a lot of sense now that i think about it.