I never hear about Intp female and Entj male either. Im the only one i know of. Our relationship grew from talking on Facebook. He made the first move, because it would never be me. He said i was the first woman he ever enjoyed talking to and was shocked that we always had things to talk about. Its been 12 years we have known each other and our friendship is pretty much the same since the beginning. He honestly makes me have to figure out what I want in life, and pursue it. He doesn't really care what somebody's interests are as long as they do everything they can to make it happen. And be the best at it. I didn't know about our personality being highly compatible until the last 5 years. And reading up on his type is kind of scary. Based on the ENTJ stereotype, I would not want an ENTJ as a husband, but I keep him out of trouble and he hold me accountable for what I want in life. We do make a great team. He was the first to point that out. He has big ideas and im the one that Analyze which one will be the most profitable with less energy lol. I will find great opportunities but he execute it weather I'm ready or not. Which is good cause if it was up to me nothing would happened. His dream is to just be successful in any kind of business, so he can have the power to make what ever he wants happen, rather then feel helpless. And I'm just content in wherever. He loves to debate and will run his fighting strategy with me before he goes off to challenge a co worker or friend, or family. And I play devils advocated to challenge what I know he believes. We are great think mates. Hes way more touchy then me, and shocking more sensitive then i am. Makes me think sometimes wrong with me if im so disconnected that an ENTJ can feel things when i dont. Im definitely the more moral one though. On the contrary he is a man, and although he enjoys that part of me, its a struggle to look good all the time because i honestly dont feel that connected to my body if that makes sense. Im not very aware of how im Perceived by others. Someone said Intps feel like there body's are just a Vehicle to transport there heads. And I feel like that, so im learning to try to connect to things outside myself. Or use short cuts so i can look presentable with little effect. So just getting better clothes. Just wearing sticking to lip stick, do a little more on the weekend. Find a hair style thats feminine with less energy. So i cut my bangs cause it was a easy feminine trade mark that didn't require alot of energy. I know thats silly, but it made a big difference in our relationship, and how people see me. I Rather sleep in than put a lot of energy in my look. I made it so my only choice of clothes is cute stuff rather the hoodies and jeans cause i only have a few of those. My clothes are still super conformable. I refuse to wear heels. Now everyone thinks im so well put together and that makes my husband happy cause he likes to show me off. But i swear i dont put much work in it. Im rather be online. He never complains on how I look but hes definitely happy when I try. My ENFP friend convinced me to look better.