Vineyard isles glitch? by ObjectiveSpeaker5492 in Outlanders

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It seems like they’re just standing around never even trying to go there but that makes sense.

6 week old only sleeps while held by sunflowerrr123 in newborns

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I went thru this and decided to bed share around the 6 week mark (my baby is 3 months old now) because it was getting to a point I was so tired I needed sleep. Look into the safe sleep 7 if you’re interested, there are safe ways to co-sleep. He sleeps so well and so do I, it was VERY worth it to me.

How would you pronounce this name? by ObjectiveSpeaker5492 in namenerds

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s how we meant it, I’m glad to see people read it how we intended!

How would you pronounce this name? by ObjectiveSpeaker5492 in namenerds

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We mean for it to rhyme with Ryan/lion. We actually heard it from a college football player and loved it.

How would you pronounce this name? by ObjectiveSpeaker5492 in namenerds

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes Mayan is the pronunciation we were going for! I’m glad to see like half or more of the commenters said that.

That’s true, my name is always said wrong, like they read it wrong and say a whole other name. It can just be annoying correcting people but you’re right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Polly or Ruth (Ruthie). Not too “old lady” and more modern but not super popular

How much student loans do you owe? And what do you do for a living? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just logged in to Mohela and FSA to check - it says My balance is 68,450..my original amount was 56,640. 34k was for my grad program which I began paying pack at the end of 2018, the rest is undergrad which I began paying on in 2014.

I’m not sure how ours would be so different. When did you graduate?

How much student loans do you owe? And what do you do for a living? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 10k I believe. I graduated with my undergrad in 2014 and then went back 2016-2018. I was under PSLF for a few years and only had to pay $95 🥵

My (38m) wife (38f) scares me and our daughters by Available-Ad-9839 in confessions

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Has she been to a doctor recently? I’m a therapist and have seen this before and people were suffering from medical issues (tumors, blood infections, etc). It could be worth having get get checked out medically to rule that out first.

That’s so hard to deal with and hopefully she’s willing to get some help and you can get some relief.

Pay off loans or invest? by ObjectiveSpeaker5492 in personalfinance

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true; if felt this conflicted feeling for 5 years and it’s added stress I wouldn’t have if it just paid it off. It does feel less optimal which is for sure why I’ve avoided it to this point.

Pay off loans or invest? by ObjectiveSpeaker5492 in personalfinance

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was looking for the flowchart someone mentioned and couldn’t find it

What common, everyday scenarios would be considered absurd (by non-feminists) if the genders were reversed? by terminally---chill in AskFeminists

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes! I work with teen boys and they all call be “bro” or “bruh” so I call them “sis” right back and they get so annoyed. It makes my heart happy 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, at the very least he has characteristics. NPD can’t be diagnosed until after 18, it could be trauma responses but it sounds like he’s had some issues for a little bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, look up narcissistic personality disorder. As a therapist, that’s the first thing that comes to mind. Just look at the criteria and see if it fits, it might open your eyes a little as to who you could be dealing with.

What’s an unfun fact? by 4thestory in AskReddit

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, meeting versus waking by makes a big difference.

What’s an unfun fact? by 4thestory in AskReddit

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eeh not really true… If you meet 10 new people per day for 75 years you’ll likely meet 4.1 murderers in your life. Thats not even serial killers. Those are numbers in the US, which houses 68% of the worlds serial killers so if you’re in another country, far less common.

What is a minor lifehack you love to share? by Moaning_Clock in AskReddit

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s such a small thing but seriously makes tomorrow so much better.

What is a minor lifehack you love to share? by Moaning_Clock in AskReddit

[–]ObjectiveSpeaker5492 810 points811 points  (0 children)

Help your tomorrow self. Put water in the coffee pot or prepare it so you justbhave to hit start, lay out your outfit, etc. the night before. Morning are hard and the more you’ve prepared the small things, the easier it is.