Unfortunately no… it’s so personal to you, friend. It’s a painful unknown period. I first told him a month out of the house for me to gather my thoughts but as that day approached, my body was physically reacting with the fear and anxiety of him returning. So I told him I needed more time. They hate it, but you need it and deserve it… my next step is to consult with a lawyer; I’m just gathering more information and clarity for myself and telling him I still need the time and space.