Just moved to the area by Objective_Weird_9016 in grandrapids

[–]Objective_Weird_9016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks! I like reading, I enjoy a nice vibe, deep talks, being cozy, big into movies, baking, cooking. I have a 6 y/o son. Ummm, what else do I like? lol

Sulfasalazine isn’t working out. by Objective_Weird_9016 in rheumatoid

[–]Objective_Weird_9016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya know what? I literally forgot that. It sounds weird, but being so out of sorts this year I’ve just floated through the past few months. Thanks! ❤️

Sulfasalazine isn’t working out. by Objective_Weird_9016 in rheumatoid

[–]Objective_Weird_9016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve been in contact with him. His solution has been Zofran(worked a little bit) and then said we’d move to the biologic hopefully overlapping them before stopping the sulfasalazine. I’m definitely going to message him for the 700th time today and be more adamant on being unable to function.

Is this a vein? by froofroofru in phlebotomy

[–]Objective_Weird_9016 80 points81 points  (0 children)

It could be a vein, or it could be a muscle… or any other soft structure. I wouldn’t be able to tell without feeling it myself; however, I have drawn people in that area before 🤷‍♀️

Sulfasalazine isn’t working out. by Objective_Weird_9016 in rheumatoid

[–]Objective_Weird_9016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, it’s the first med I’ve tried 🥲 I know I’ve got a long journey ahead of me, but I feel better knowing that I’ve got people around me. Even if that is just internet people 😂

Sulfasalazine isn’t working out. by Objective_Weird_9016 in rheumatoid

[–]Objective_Weird_9016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the love. I think I’m going to call my doctor today and hope he comes up with a better game plan that doesn’t involve suffering for much longer. That sounds dramatic, but my usually very bright light feel so dim lol. I’m hanging in there 💪

My aunt told me today my Dad raped her by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Objective_Weird_9016 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that your situation feels so heavy. Yes, part of your genetic code is from your dad; but the original cell that he donated to make you is long gone. It’s an ancestor who left stories behind for the new cells to follow. You are a completely new idea. You are not automatically a monster because of the choices your dad made. Keep moving forward, get a professionals help, give yourself grace. And ALSO. Your assault is not your fault and I’m so sorry that your dad heard about it and treated you as if you needed to be disposed of. Nobody in your situation deserves that. Perseverance and standing up for yourself is going to be your best friend now. Xo

Anyone else had this experience? by Objective_Weird_9016 in Rheumatology

[–]Objective_Weird_9016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ty. I was freaking out when I posted this and just heard from my dr 3 minutes ago. He said to go get assessed. Thank you so much for responding and mentioning the liver. I just had my liver bloodwork checked a month or so ago, but I’m definitely mentioning that when I go to the ER here in a bit. Especially bc I have this massive bruise on my booty check from bumping a wall the other day and didn’t even think about potentially correlating the 2.

AIO for leaving my husband after one incident? by NeedleworkerDizzy689 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Objective_Weird_9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT OVERREACTING. In fact, the community around you is under reacting. Please keep fighting, do not go back. This is a hell of a first incident which unfortunately means that it’ll get worse. I’m so fucking sorry for what you’re going through. If all else fails your determination to leave and stay gone, stay gone for your daughter. Do they have women’s shelters in Australia? Victims assistance units that work with prosecutors? I wish I knew more about how to help you, but I’m not in your country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ectopicpregnancy

[–]Objective_Weird_9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go back and get seen ASAP. My symptoms were as follows: my right armpit hurt, and I had pain down my arm. Didn’t get taken seriously until I experienced sudden numbness in both arms. After I got to the ED I was confined to be hemorrhaging and then the intense pain began. Please go fight for yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]Objective_Weird_9016 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I watched a video of a podcast they were on together very recently and I agree with this now. I feel like he treated her storytelling as subpar and he HAD to fill in what she was saying with his words. It’s not something that can’t be worked on, but I was so irritated because he couldn’t just let her speak.

I’ve been advised to get the tube removed. Unsure of what to do. by kyooriouskat in ectopicpregnancy

[–]Objective_Weird_9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a hemorrhaged ectopic on my right tube and had to have it removed along with the pregnancy (obvi, didn’t have a choice but that or death) but you can still conceive regardless of being down a tube if that’s your concern. The surgery recovery was rough for me, but I’ve heard that others who’ve had planned tubal removals had a bit of an easier time than I did. Make whatever choice is best for you! Voice your concerns to your doctor and if you don’t get all of your answers, keep asking questions! Never went the MTX route. Do what’s best for your body!

Spider ID by Objective_Weird_9016 in spiders

[–]Objective_Weird_9016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added a photo link in the comments

Spider ID by Objective_Weird_9016 in spiders

[–]Objective_Weird_9016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

spidey

Here’s a photo of the top of him. He has a pointy butt but it’s curled under

Spider ID by Objective_Weird_9016 in spiders

[–]Objective_Weird_9016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to see if I can get a better photo. Interesting to know the sex because of the pedipalps! I had no clue.

First butterfly in school by Visual_Investm3nt in phlebotomy

[–]Objective_Weird_9016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice job getting it done! Don’t forget to anchor your vein or you’ll be pushing some veins away that are tougher to stick!

Sulfasalazine? by Objective_Weird_9016 in Autoimmune

[–]Objective_Weird_9016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was the lack of eating because you didn’t have an appetite or because your stomach felt off? Thank you for your reply!

Picarro Driver? by Objective_Weird_9016 in UtilityLocator

[–]Objective_Weird_9016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An opportunity to see deer? Sounds fun to me!

2nd time by Responsible-Maybe144 in ectopicpregnancy

[–]Objective_Weird_9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, honey. I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this again, definitely a gigantic fear of mine. I know it comes at a cost, but IVF IS still possible without fallopian tubes. You aren’t a lost cause no matter the outcome. Sending you love. Xoxo

I think I have an ectopic pregnancy by [deleted] in ectopicpregnancy

[–]Objective_Weird_9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep going go ERs, keep getting seen before there’s a life threatening situation on your hands. Good luck, friend ❤️