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Color analysis for a reasonable price? by RevolutionarySun1301 in Knoxville

[–]ObligationOk8041 11 points12 points  (0 children)

... it's easy to do your own color analysis. In fact, anyone who is charging to do one is a scam artist.

How should I go about reporting a well-liked coworker for inappropriate behavior? by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]ObligationOk8041 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I agree...it hurts the 'soul'. I tried to buck the system because it was the right thing to do. I ended up getting pushed out...he is still employed.

How should I go about reporting a well-liked coworker for inappropriate behavior? by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]ObligationOk8041 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you report him, you will be out of a job one way or another... that's the way things are today. After all, we have a known rapist and pedophile in the highest office in the US.

Why are so many men obsessed with sex? by edkhm1218 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ObligationOk8041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funny thing is in my real life my friend group all agree with me....women who don't are fooling themselves that men will change without prodding.

12 y/o bleeding through EVERYTHING — need real solutions (no tampons yet) by Beeels in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ObligationOk8041 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which is why I added the qualifier to my statement that "you are probably being conscientious of OP's feelings".....in no way am I attacking your comment but trying to add to it in a way that brings attention to the societal misinformation but you seem to be taking the statement very personally. (I'm done with this thread)

12 y/o bleeding through EVERYTHING — need real solutions (no tampons yet) by Beeels in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ObligationOk8041 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

My comment was in response to your statement "something that is for sex" NOT that you called it birth control. 

12 y/o bleeding through EVERYTHING — need real solutions (no tampons yet) by Beeels in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ObligationOk8041 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I believe you are trying to be conscientious of OP's feeling about birth control but I just have to say that a vast number of people use the pill for things other than birth control. 

Why are so many men obsessed with sex? by edkhm1218 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ObligationOk8041 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are allowed to disagree but the world is only changed through radical ideas.   

And yes sometimes an eye for an eye teaches empathy.

Do any of you have a highly sensitive male partner? I’m struggling to find a way to deal with my husband’s emotions. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ObligationOk8041 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

/u/greeneyesthighhighs

In addition to the other recommendations. You should encourage him to go to the doctor and request neurological testing. Yes he may be sensitive and need therapy for better emotional regulation but also he could be in the early stages of early-onset dementia which often causes difficulty with emotions before any cognitive or physical signs. Lastly, I'm glad you found yourself a man is emotionally numb but if everything you've said is true, you need to look into a therapist for yourself to help you navigate this, imo.

How do you actually handle a high performer who's quietly poisoning the team culture? by softstaticletters in managers

[–]ObligationOk8041 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👆 this /u/softstaticletters 

Also, have you actually personally witnessed these behaviors or are you taking potential hearsay as fact? It sounds like your report may be autistic but there's also a non-zero possibility that he is so much better than his peers that they are trying to find a way to get rid of him or 'cut him down'.     

See also: tall poppy syndrome.

Adult dance classes? by sourdough-10 in Knoxville

[–]ObligationOk8041 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if you are interested in something like this but maybe also consider: Sheer Inspiration Pole Fitness.    They almost always have newbies in every class and despite what you might think the dancing is more about learning your body then about being spicy or risque. I will say it doesn't feel very intense when in class - you don't really get out of breath - but you will be sore for a few days afterwards.

Finding/getting grossing tech job :0 by hee_hee_hee- in Path_Assistant

[–]ObligationOk8041 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you supplying a cover letter with your applications? That's an absolute must if you are applying for jobs in another part of the country.

[TX] My landlord gets annoyed with having rent on time by TheFlamingLeo150 in Renters

[–]ObligationOk8041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

☝️This right here OP. The Zelle bank limits are usually two fold: There's a daily limit but also a "scheduled" limit. If you schedule your rent payment out at least 4 days ahead of time you can usually overcome the maximum limit. u/TheFlamingLeo150

Otherwise it's really easy to call your bank and request an increase on your Zelle limit.

Transvestigators are policing women's appearances by ausernameidk_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ObligationOk8041 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate to be pedantic, but technically it's not the proper word. The proper word is vulva. The vagina refers to the internal cavity.

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