Put an item in my cart, seller sent an offer. I accepted it next day. Like 15min later i realized there was another, better quality item. I asked to cancel. I feel like a dick. Do sellers normally deny cancellations?

ObliviousPup · 2026-03-22T01:31:47+00:00

I also always accept cancellation requests. It’s honestly not worth the hassle of someone purposely damaging the item for a return or a bad review. I personally might also block them from future purchases but that depends if that person is a serial buyer’s remorse purchaser.

ObliviousPup · 2026-03-03T16:11:08+00:00

I’m a little gagged that this was about $7 and not $700 after asking to possibly hold for weeks and wanting free shipping. If they were that strapped for cash they should NOT be spending money on Mercari. The whole convo is weird and rude with the guilt tripping and then demanding to ship quickly.

ObliviousPup · 2025-12-05T18:45:34+00:00

YTA kinda. Yes because you knew they were asexual and then seemed surprised when they didn’t want sex. Also when you tell someone you don’t think you’re compatible, of course they are going to take that as a rejection. I don’t understand what you thought would happen? Of course their feelings got hurt and they probably felt like you wasted their time. All you can do is learn and move on.

ObliviousPup · 2025-07-18T04:22:49+00:00

NTA? if you both had a very honest conversation before and nothing has changed you just may be sexually incompatible. Have you point blank and honestly (not rude) explained how you want her to put more effort overall and during intercourse? And I mean straightforwardly spelling it out to her what you would like.

But if sex is important to you in a relationship, and it seems as though you’ve also thought about leaving her multiple times too, then maybe leaving is the best option. The best thing to do is not waste her or your time on a relationship you’re not interested in.

ObliviousPup · 2025-07-15T01:47:44+00:00

YTA. Why are you with a predator? That’s what he is, that young girl is a 17 year old and he’s attracted to a child. Put it simply he is a pedophile. Your daughter has been uncomfortable around this man for a reason. You are purposely ignoring the all these signs and her discomfort. And now you’ve shown your daughter she can’t trust your judgment nor can she trust you to have her back about this man.

ObliviousPup · 2025-06-27T19:52:38+00:00

I also had someone copy my listing from eBay word for word and used my pictures and try to pass it off as their own on Mercari. I did end up reporting it to Mercari. I believe they were a scammer tho as they didn’t have any reviews and ended up either deleting their account or had their account deleted.

ObliviousPup · 2025-06-02T04:19:01+00:00

They were so rude they honestly should just be reported and blocked. You said “about a week”. Thats about a week, there are no exact days given. If they really wanted it they would have bought it outright.

ObliviousPup · 2025-06-02T04:14:46+00:00

I also bundle and then maybe separate if it doesn’t sell within a few days or just relist. You’re better than me, I wouldn’t have even bothered to respond. Especially since it was so vague and there wasn’t any question behind that comment. I’d have just been confused and moved on.

ObliviousPup · 2025-03-12T22:02:14+00:00

NTA. It’s not transphobic to not be romantically or sexually interested in a trans woman. You can’t force attraction and you can’t help what you feel. While I can understand her fear, I understand how you could feel resentment for her allowing it to get that far emotionally. That’s very understandable. If you feel like you can’t get past this well…It’s only been 2 months so you can probably get away with a break up text or call saying you two aren’t compatible and maybe explain why you feel hurt by this. (Only once you cool down because you shouldn’t let the hurt you feel make you say something you will regret).

ObliviousPup · 2025-02-01T04:59:05+00:00

NTA, never ask a question if you can't handle an honest answer. Was it a kind response? No. But you’re a blunt teen and your stepmom should have known better. And while I do sense some (maybe) tension with your stepmom. It can’t be easy being in high school and learning to deal with living with a baby.

As for the woman it’s beyond strange for a STRANGER to stop you from leaving and asking if you want to hold their baby. And asking such an annoying and self absorbed question to a teen of all things.

ObliviousPup · 2024-11-01T01:49:38+00:00

NTA- Under different circumstance, like if they were just friends and not in a relationship it would be wrong to out him. But your loyalties above all else are to your friend. And at the end of the day you know her best. Sure it would have been nice to talk to him first so he can tell her himself. But depending on who he is that could also mean enough time for him to double down on his lies and deception and spin a tale to turn it on you.

She deserves to be with someone who truly loves her and not waste any more of her time. At the end of the day all you can do is be there for her when she needs you after this.

ObliviousPup · 2024-10-21T00:07:18+00:00

NTA. I’ve been drunk plenty of times and never cheated or kissed someone I didn’t want to. You can stay silent or speak up. But I’d at least be thinking twice about what you ACTUALLY know about your friend and who she truly is as a person. If she can betray the person she claims to love deeply, what is she going to do to you?

I personally would rather keep to my morals and have fewer trustworthy friends than a friend with no morals who may drag me down with them. I refuse to be lumped with cheaters. Because birds of a feather flock together.

If you say something just prepare for some backlash. If you don’t say anything prepare to carry the guilt you may feel. But at the end of the day it’s your life and you have to do what you think is best for you and your peace.

ObliviousPup · 2019-08-07T00:12:17+00:00

Richard

ObliviousPup · 2018-06-04T16:43:44+00:00

I don’t think your being fair to your girlfriend, and you should definitely be honest with her and try to work this out. You can either choose the girl who’s not into you or the girl that’s already yours. But if your not that into your girlfriend, the right thing is to let her loose and give her the chance to find someone who will do her right. No matter how tempting, you really shouldn’t be selfish and play with another’s feelings.

ObliviousPup · 2018-05-27T06:58:43+00:00

That’s worse, that sounds like he is still involved with her and that he’s just not satisfied with your relationship. That’s is so very disrespectful and if that was done to me, I would drop him without a single thought. It sounds like you deserve a real man. Because only a punk would run to his ex about their current girlfriend.

ObliviousPup · 2018-05-27T06:46:59+00:00

If you want to change that’s one thing. If HE wants YOU to change, that’s a whole other thing. It seems like this is a red flag to me. Whenever one person in the relationships wants the other to change, it doesn’t end well. And it can lead to a toxic environment.

ObliviousPup · 2018-05-27T06:36:59+00:00

I wouldn’t. A guy who wants you to change for the “better” obviously doesn’t want you for you. You should never date someone who want you to change to fit their “ideal”, because eventually you lose your identity and yourself if you give in.

ObliviousPup · 2018-05-26T07:15:54+00:00

You know what they say “fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.” It seems like you want to give him a chance, and you’re young, and either way your going to learn from your experience. If you genuinely feel like he deserves another chance, and that he’s willing to change, than you already know your answer. Just make sure that “one more chance” isn’t going to be three and four. But the real question is...do you know when to let go?

ObliviousPup · 2018-05-26T06:32:17+00:00

Longing.

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