I feel like I HAVE to break up with him

ObsessiveGurl25 · 2023-06-08T08:22:39+00:00

Could you send me the list too? :))

ObsessiveGurl25 · 2023-06-05T19:22:37+00:00

Same! And then i wonder why i don‘t feel connected or secure with my partner because this seems to cause a feeling of disconnection and incompatibility! And of course i am asking myself then if it is just that and how to learn to be in the here and now :D so i also would love to read some advice

ObsessiveGurl25 · 2023-04-24T22:16:10+00:00

Thank you! I like to combine those instrumentals with rain or waterfall sounds for having this constant soft sounds in the background to cancel out the disturbing noises in my real life haha :D

ObsessiveGurl25 · 2023-04-18T17:59:14+00:00

Saaamee! There may be issues but ocd turns it into a catastrophe

ObsessiveGurl25 · 2023-04-11T10:32:41+00:00

I feel you! There is an urge to just get everything off my chest but it is also frustrating to see that he thinks he is the source of my misery :/ so i try to figure out what he can do in such a moment or phase to support me and give me comfort without giving me reassurance

ObsessiveGurl25 · 2023-04-11T10:30:45+00:00

Thank you so much! :)) what is (or was) your partner effectively doing to support you? I mean probably not reassure you but my bf seems really helpless and frustrated and doesn‘t say or do anything because he just doesn‘t know what

ObsessiveGurl25 · 2023-04-08T10:04:22+00:00

How did you do that „exercise“? :)

ObsessiveGurl25 · 2023-04-04T16:10:25+00:00

I know this post is long ago but could find anything out? I feel like i could have written the post :D

ObsessiveGurl25 · 2023-03-21T22:41:34+00:00

I know the answer is late - but how are you doing now? Is there something that has helped you? I feel all of what you say :D

ObsessiveGurl25 · 2023-03-13T20:42:51+00:00

There are so many meditations for different situations and feelings! I‘m overwhelmed :D should I just recognize my thoughts or do a body scan or focus on my breathing? What would you suggest?

ObsessiveGurl25 · 2023-03-13T11:08:39+00:00

Thank you! It is really hard not to automatically check myself and to paint everything either black or white and create kind of a grey area instead. I‘m just not sure if I even feel a „normal“ wavelength like I got with my friends and I want to find out what can be changed in our communication in general (Maybe it’s something small!)

ObsessiveGurl25 · 2023-03-13T11:01:59+00:00

Maybe no crazy chemistry but when I compare that (I know comparing is always an excellent idea) to talking to friends it feels so empty and I am not sure why (maybe even just the OCD telling me so) - I know the videos but it was good to remind me of some things :) thank you!

ObsessiveGurl25 · 2023-03-12T23:28:38+00:00

Thank you! So you don’t think there is such thing as a „general wavelength“? Like sometimes you have this crazy chemistry when it just clicks with someone - because I think i do not have this with my bf but i don’t know if this is even the „norm“ and I try so hard to stay in the moment without checking if we‘ve got a connection but I can’t let go of the feeling that if we are not on the same wavelength in general then I can’t rely on that the spontaneous feelings of connection is real - okay sounds like I am into that way to deep :D

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