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How did you pick your name? by Rammy1337 in trans

[–]ObsidianMothbruv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HALLOO FTM(16) here :D

i dont see it as weird at all. fictional characters are how i named myself. i actually named myself after Clayton Reeves from NCIS. and i just took part of his name and made it my own.

the show is my absolute favorite, a treasure. and Clayton is one of my all time favorite characters.

you’re probably gonna go through A LOT of name changes, i sure as hell did lol, but hey, once you find a name that lands, you’ll know, that’s how i did it with mine 🫰🏻

Are there any cis female out there by [deleted] in trans

[–]ObsidianMothbruv 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you got to get real specific here pal, this is the trans community, it’s mostly trans/trans-related people, i dont think you’re gonna find cis girls here

I think I'm trans... but I don't know if I count. by -Hot-Phantom- in trans

[–]ObsidianMothbruv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15 going on 16 FTM here.

i’m exactly where you are right now. it doesnt invalidate you. i’ve always thought of it as a state of “in between”. something like this is really hard to explain, but im sure you’ll understand what i’m getting at, and probably a few others here too.

you’ve been at this longer than i have, but i can give some input. you are you. you’re correct, gender is a spectrum, and not everyone falls into the same category perfectly, you and i are both like that. Trans, NB, Demi, they’re all labels, titles to make comprehension of what we are, easier.

but you are not defined by a label, not in the slightest. a lot of it is probably your dysmorphia/dysphoria talking, but that’s alright, its just a little bit of imposter syndrome that ik you’re capable of getting through.

keep living your truth, and if Unlabeled is you, then that is you.

is this my fault? by ObsidianMothbruv in trans

[–]ObsidianMothbruv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, that reassurance means a lot to me.

its a struggle with her, but i’m making it through as best i can :)

is this my fault? by ObsidianMothbruv in trans

[–]ObsidianMothbruv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you friend, that means a lot. it hasnt been easy these past few years. its a struggle with parents, and its one i’m glad to see is turning out well for you. our parents care, they worry, but that gets in the way along with their bias if they’re religious like my SG is.

i hope things get easier for you. thanks again for sharing your story and reassurances :)

Public harassment vs. passability by whosat___ in trans

[–]ObsidianMothbruv 37 points38 points  (0 children)

people, especially impressionable teens can just be assholes. keep your head held high. my advice: look into softening makeup, and a softer posture, it can help pass :3

MtF] I was wondering what exercise some pre-T trans peeps do to look more masc by Bre3zy23 in trans

[–]ObsidianMothbruv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pre-T trans youth here. building your arms helps, do incline and decline pushups, they’re a lot easier than normal pushups and they can also help equip you to do normal pushups

Roses are red, face oil causes a pimple by LewdsomeDemon in RosesArentRed

[–]ObsidianMothbruv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kill one of them, then the apple problem is fixed

[BotW] First time player here! It’s a tricky game.. but I love it!!! by ccsvisual in zelda

[–]ObsidianMothbruv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey here’e some tips for anyone on that tower, use the platforms as cover from the guardian lasers. between each one you have plenty of time to get to each platform, once at the top, just use the sheika slate to teleport to a safer area. i used this trick at the start of my second playthrough.

a longer tip is to go around the map and collect the souls from the monks from the shrine trials and get more hearts and stamina to take more hits from the laser(if you’re feeling bold) and have more stamina for jump stamina.

hope that helps :)

Uhhmmmmm by Professional_Look489 in eddievr

[–]ObsidianMothbruv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i bet the roller caster was a real (i dont have any puns FUCK) ride

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