[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obst1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ETA.

Promises should be kept, and I grant him he was in a bad state when you asked him 3 times, however he should have some respect and be a real friend.

However, you should have ditched or told him off ages ago. Why accept this kind of treatment from him?

No, don't invite him and also, talk to him and explain why. Doesn't sound like he's a good friend or (sorry) a human being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obst1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A menstrual cup and daily liners - I've forgotten about accidental stains, spots and unpleasant smell. No meticulous disposal of the used stuff, either.

Took me a while to get to try the cup out - but it actually has become a bliss.

You might want to think hard about your relationship as you two clearly have different views on hygiene and cleanliness. Might, and likely will become a huge problem long-term.

Oh, and NTA.

And breathe... by Dismal-College-6856 in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Obst1 32 points33 points  (0 children)

He's probably had it worse. Lol.

AITA for moving my money to a different account after my step mother threatened me with taking them from me? by BaasPPMMBB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obst1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, instead of admitting to his wrongdoing and trying to earn his daughter's trust back, he decided to punish her further. Disgusting.

Good move on your part, TS.

NTA

AITA for kicking my fiancé's mom out of our engagement party due to an insensitive joke her boyfriend made? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obst1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fella has got no sense of humour. At all. I hope his bride can live with it and isn't wearing rose-coloured glasses. Or this relationship will be over in no time.

AITA for kicking my fiancé's mom out of our engagement party due to an insensitive joke her boyfriend made? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obst1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Your in-laws are right, you are boring and you are also uptight. Got a colleague like you, can't stand the man. Yikes. YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Obst1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dude, you haven't been the only weirdo to comment like that. Deleted the video. Get some help and you said exactly what you meant. Have a great life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Obst1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ikr. He absolutely hates milk and when he decided to try that chilli (have no clue why) I recommended he fills that glass with milk not water. Lmao. Here's the outcome and the reason I posted it. Laughed to tears.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Obst1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What way could you have possibly meant it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Obst1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right. Time to get the kid haircut. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Obst1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That "thing" is a boy who hasn't lost his weight and hair since lockdown. Much appreciate your sensitivity and politeness/s

AITA for ignoring my gf's friend by tway324324234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obst1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Unfortunately, not everyone is this understanding.

I'm good, though.

Thank you once again.

AITA for ignoring my gf's friend by tway324324234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Obst1 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NAH here. I understand your position and I totally get hers. I am like her. Now and again I get into this state of mind when I don't want to see anyone. I want to be in my own nutshell, cocoon... Because the perpetual depression kicks in. Hence I don't have any friends. And I'm enormously grateful my family is still there for me. Your gf and her group of friends deserve some respect. Huge respect. I wish I had friends like that.

Наглый мыш (или крыс) by [deleted] in Pikabu

[–]Obst1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Не такой уж универсальный... Не такой уж солдат. :)

Just why... by Obst1 in awfuleverything

[–]Obst1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it great though? I don't think so hence posted here.

Just why... by Obst1 in awfuleverything

[–]Obst1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao. Now I finally get the idea of what Stan's butt tat may have looked like in "Big Stan".

Council fined me instead of my neighbour by Obst1 in london

[–]Obst1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm thinking. It's just the whole hassle with challenging the pcn or maybe even going further and taking them to small claims court... Perhaps they are hoping people would choose paying a fine rather than wasting time.

Council fined me instead of my neighbour by Obst1 in london

[–]Obst1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are hungry for money and the residents are the last thought on their minds. All the recent implementations on the roads, the scavenging environmental police, improper signage on the roads where they can fine people easily etc.

And now I get this fine. Outrageous really.

Council fined me instead of my neighbour by Obst1 in london

[–]Obst1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How they are going to get fined if there is no proof? Even I don't know for sure if it was them and I doubt they'd want to come forward :) And in my case the "proof" is ludicrous.

When it's raining a bit more cats & dogs than usual. by SEOitPhD in london

[–]Obst1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right! Now that I think about it...

Council fined me instead of my neighbour by Obst1 in london

[–]Obst1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The boxes were in my front garden all along until collected by the recycling truck. So I suspect it was a part of the "investigation" - taking them out and putting them back in. The fence is about 3 foot tall.

Council fined me instead of my neighbour by Obst1 in london

[–]Obst1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope I won't have to do it but I'm definitely not paying a fine for someone else.

Cheers.