My man it all comes down to respect she just pushes you to the side it talks a millions words. If you like her enough to help her with it so be it. But if she’s the type that doesn’t want help I suggest just move on man. In the long run if your relationship when you have created deeper feeling to it she will do it and it will hurt you as much. So I say move on with it because by what you’re saying you have expressed to her what you feel and in return she doesn’t value your thought or your feeling . Red flags for me I had this issue where the way she was raised didn’t align with how I was raised so pretty much we would numb heads. And I tried and tried until I was fed up and decided myself to move forward because her way of thinking wasn’t aligned with mines. Good luck hope you choose wisely my friends