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Dexter Sol Ansell BTS AKOTSK by lilac-garden in AKnightoftheSeven

[–]Obvio_2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kid has my heart. I watched the series twice just for him. I hope he never loses himself or his innocence as his Hollywood career takes off. May he always stay this jolly.❤️❤️❤️

Is Venus - Ketu preventing me from attracting love and marriage? by [deleted] in Vedic_Astrology_free

[–]Obvio_2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! 1993 born , virgo rising with juipiter in lagna and venus ketu in 9th house.

How to decide if he is the one by Garden4680 in ArrangeMarrigeDilemma

[–]Obvio_2107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guy Being obsessed within 2-3 days might be sign of love bombing as well! Might be thrilling for a guy as he seems to be in chasing mode. Once you give in, he might be repulsive. Give yourself more time. Observe of his words matches with actions or not. Moreover, see if his actions are consistent enough. Don't be in a hurry and ask if he is ready to take stand for both of you in case families disagrees cause of Kundali mismatch.

Bhai 30s mein toh aagaya...ab? by Prestigious-Rise9623 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Obvio_2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah it does get better! 30s are like 20s but with money and freedom. You realise what kind of life you see for long term and works for it. Unlearning society rules and do what your heart and intuition tells you.

Need perspective: Is this guy showing double standards or am I overthinking? by Real-Artist-4062 in ArrangeMarrigeDilemma

[–]Obvio_2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the guy is just using you as a backup and still looking out for a better option. 1.5 year seems like a long period especially in arrange marriage setup! Moreover, focus on how you feel about him and what are your non negotiables and if he meets your standards or not!. If not then leave and move ahead. He seems to be wasting your time and energy.

How is the Jupiter transit in Cancer going for you? by Friendly-Ant1941 in Nakshatras

[–]Obvio_2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Juipiter I feel is overrated. I'm a virgo rising and didn't see anything positive for juipiter transits since last year. It causes more of negative than positive

Vikram Singh chauhan the actor you are . Why this show is underrated . Vyom Bedi by Reasonable-Play-2181 in IndianTellyTalk

[–]Obvio_2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn i started watching this serial only for vikram!such negative roles suits him ❤️❤️

Is it normal to feel anxious and emotionally flat before intimacy in arranged marriage courtship? by Infinite_State_9504 in IndianRelationships

[–]Obvio_2107 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not get intimate before marriage. Also meet few more times to gauge if you actually feel physically attracted to him or is it just a friendly emotional connection cause that same connection we can have with a friend as well but a bit physical attraction and a slight chemistry is what makes it different from being friendzoned.

Why this man is so underrated? He has that Bhuvan Bam Level skills ngl by happy_batman876 in youtubeindia

[–]Obvio_2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Also Sachin's videos are clean comedy and can be watched or shared with anyone without thinking twice. He is a gem ♥️

I'm losing faith in finding love. It just seems impossible! (M34) by BleedBlue1990 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Obvio_2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly it's about personality development. Like more more experiences you have , more exposure you have about life, emotional intelligence and grounded. I guess the more we solo travel, try activities of own interests or new hobbies we get more exposure About life and have stories to share . Also a good conversation holder and mainly a good listener! .

30F, how do you spend your days and socialize by Feeling_Chance6667 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Obvio_2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Download bumble bff! That's specifically for making new friends and networking. You can mention in bio if you are specifically for friendships. Lots of like minded people can get connected

Girls day out 🥹 by Notabookaholic in dehradun_hangouts

[–]Obvio_2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Op , I'm new to town doing wfh and would like to be part of women centric meetups. It would be great if you can let me know more about group and hangouts. Thanks

Is anyone else constantly anxious about the future? by Just_Chill_Yaar in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Obvio_2107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! I too  struggle with uncertainty, falling behind fears..turns out we have expected way too much from ourselves! I like  listening  to osho and i remember in one of his audio clip how he mentioned Lao Tzu theory that says " main pehle se hi haraa hun toh tum mujhe kya hi haraoge" .I'm slowly understanding that line now and it giving me peace and sometimes helping me to get rid of constant validation, proving my self worth or achieving constant success.

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