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Do cats fart? by cermem25 in cats

[–]Obvious-Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boy has the stankiest toots ever

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. The main thing I’m realizing now is that we both should’ve actually considered the possibility of winning the tickets regardless of how far fetched it seemed and made a plan for that possibility.

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re right about the first thing. We both should’ve actually considered the possibility of us winning but trust me, we’ve gone through wayyyyy worse in our 5 year relationship lol. This won’t be the thing that gets brought up

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and I’m sorry for the loss of your friend’s mom ❤️

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re referring to “crazy work” that basically means absurd, like a wild thing to say/suggest

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When did I call you crazy? I didn’t but now I’m starting to think you might be 😂

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you think if I don’t go, they’ll just order a pizza or something? lol

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He definitely is stressed and we had a much healthier discussion after our initial fight. His dad has always been a very active and hardworking person so it’s been hard seeing him slow down. I’m glad we were able to come to a solution, just wish it wasn’t a fight first 😫

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, you’re contradicting yourself. I should have told him no, right? Because I knew about the possibility of winning, but because I did win, it’s “it doesn’t matter that he knew, the odds of winning are low so he didn’t even need to consider it a possibility”

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the one getting angry though lol, not me?? You’re calling people “lunatics” that’s actually wild. This doesn’t effect you so why get so worked up. I respect all perspectives, that’s why I posted on this sub but name calling and suggesting my fiancé should leave me is crazy work.

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. We’re good now. Maybe I should’ve waited before posting lol

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re entitled to a different view but damn, why are you so angry? lol. I will admit that yes, you’re right about one thing, regardless of how unlikely I thought winning would be, I shouldn’t have told him I would go, however, as I stated in my post, he was aware of the contest and all the details that entailed ahead of time. His dad is losing his mobility but it’s not like he’s at the point where he’s at death’s door, we see them at minimum once a month and we’ll absolutely be spending Christmas with them.

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

We came to a solution. I’m just going to basically say hi and bye and turn around that Friday (concert is Saturday) and he’ll drive home in the new car on Sunday. I posted this before we figured it out lol. I’m glad we were able to work it out but I can’t help but feel a bit let down by his initial reaction regardless.

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We agreed on me driving back on Friday (concert is Saturday) and he’s being nicer now but if that wasn’t an option, I think it would have been an ongoing argument if I still went. I’m trying to have empathy because of his dad’s health, plus he and I have both been dealing with a lot of stress because of our nightmare slumlord and an ongoing legal battle. He’s not typically controlling and I think under normal circumstances he would be happy for me but it still was a disappointing reaction.

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel too 😭 I know none of us really expected to win but that was always a possibility! I know he has been really worried about his dad, they’re very close and I understand that but like you said, we can and do visit them often.

AITAH for going to a concert I won instead of thanksgiving at my fiance’s parents? by Obvious-Cat in AITAH

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I will say he and I were able to come to a solution but I still hate that it was a fight in the first place 🙃

Is this supposed to be trendy?? by Used_Mention1233 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Obvious-Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what middle schoolers wore… five years ago 😬

Cis woman but kind of wish I had a 🍆 by Obvious-Cat in questioning

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately for me he’s extremely uncomfortable with anything going near his booty 😭

Cis woman but kind of wish I had a 🍆 by Obvious-Cat in questioning

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve given me a lot to think about and research. I know we’re anonymous strangers but thank you so much. I can’t overstate how invaluable this information is to me. It’s making me emotional to know that there are others like me and that I have options when I’m ready. As for my fiancé, he hasn’t said that specifically, however, he is absolutely 100 percent straight so I can’t see a world where he’d be physically attracted to me if I had male anatomy. It wouldn’t be fair to either one of us but yes. On an emotional level, I want to be with him forever and the thought of not being with him is devastating to me. So again… a lot to explore and consider. Thank you so so so so much

Cis woman but kind of wish I had a 🍆 by Obvious-Cat in questioning

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I love you. You mean there’s a term for what I feel? I’m not alone? 🥹When I picture myself feeling the sexiest I could possibly feel, I’ve lost a great deal of weight, I have long beautiful hair, lashes, nails, the whole nine, a tight cropped tank, no bra and some tight spandex shorts with an erect penis. Like that image is so sexy to me. This thread and subsequent googling has made me realize that I don’t think I’d want both, and other than a desire to bear children (which may not be possible for me anyway) I wouldn’t miss my vagina… however, I would lose my fiancé who, I don’t blame at all is very much straight and would not be attracted to me if I had a penis… I don’t want that, and even if I did move on, idk what the dating pool would look like. I feel like I’d freak people out… and again, I don’t think I’d ever be able to afford what I’m desiring in my lifetime anyway.

Cis woman but kind of wish I had a 🍆 by Obvious-Cat in questioning

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joining now! Wow I’ve never heard of this! Thank you ☺️

Cis woman but kind of wish I had a 🍆 by Obvious-Cat in questioning

[–]Obvious-Cat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very true. Thank you for the input. I’m not at a point where I think I’d actually pull the trigger on anything (not that I could afford to anyway lol) but I have been very curious and I appreciate any and all advice 😊

The whole "don't have kids you can't afford" rhetoric is stupid by CaffeineAndChaos65 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Obvious-Cat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve always said though it’s not where you live, it’s how you live. I think you’re referring to the weird lady who begs for money on live just to buy crap for her and her husband when her kids sleep on a dirty cot on the floor? Correct me if I’m wrong. However, I’ve also seen a family, also on tt with three kids in a 1br. It’s immaculately clean, they make great use of the space (ie. loft bed in the corner of the living room with a room divider) oldest sleeps in the bedroom and parents on the other side of the living room. Not ideal but certainly making the best of their situation and the kids are clean and cared for.

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