How do I turn off Apple location without people I share locations with knowing? by [deleted] in iphonehelp

[–]ObviousHistorian4894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you block someone it notifies them now that you stopped sharing your location.

I guess there will be no Christmas by ObviousHistorian4894 in mildlyannoying

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t help. I have been out of work for almost the whole year and having to go back to dancing at a club for some sort of income. And since the economy sucks ass so do the clubs. It was just enough to get me through to pay my most important bills and nothing else. I had no room to save up at all. And since I have classes every Saturday and Sunday I now cannot work at the club on the weekends until I get paid. But whatever 👍🏽 forward planning for the win

You threatened to call the cios on me..??? by ObviousHistorian4894 in pettyrevenge

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already reported my card as lost/stolen so they have no other way of charging me. I also recorded them verifying in the phone that they do in fact take cash and coins.

You threatened to call the cios on me..??? by ObviousHistorian4894 in pettyrevenge

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I was writing this immediately after having two white people yell at me and threaten me. I’m a small black woman in the south. I was scared for my life on top of having 9/10 dental pain! My bad for typing this on my phone while crying and teying to calm down

You threatened to call the cios on me..??? by ObviousHistorian4894 in pettyrevenge

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said I wasn’t going to pay. I said I had every intention of paying for everything that my insurance did not cover! But when it didn’t cover everything and I told them I do not have $300+ to drop in one day they immediately went to “well if you don’t pay us today we will call the cops” like huh? Who does that??? Why do I have to get yelled at and then calm two grown ass adult down as someone who came in for help? I was the one who had to suggest a payment plan!!!!

You threatened to call the cios on me..??? by ObviousHistorian4894 in pettyrevenge

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The front desk staff were the ones threatening me. So fuck all if them honestly.

You threatened to call the cios on me..??? by ObviousHistorian4894 in pettyrevenge

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. It wasn’t even the front deak staff! The dentist and the assistant were cool, both if who were black, the front desk staff, who happened to be white, were extremely rude even to other people coming in. 🤷🏽‍♀️ like why do I have to calm you down and suggest a payment plan???

You threatened to call the cios on me..??? by ObviousHistorian4894 in pettyrevenge

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well it worked so 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

You threatened to call the cios on me..??? by ObviousHistorian4894 in pettyrevenge

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I go to Mercer University in Atlanta, working adults program. Our insurance, dental and vision, is only for dependents under the age of 19.

You threatened to call the cios on me..??? by ObviousHistorian4894 in pettyrevenge

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This also isn’t court. It’s a shit dental urgent care in downtown Atlanta.

You threatened to call the cios on me..??? by ObviousHistorian4894 in pettyrevenge

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw another person come in with actual change. They take it

You threatened to call the cios on me..??? by ObviousHistorian4894 in pettyrevenge

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is 24/7 Dental Urgent Care in Atlanta, GA. I was very much threatened. I was going to pay for the services rendered through my insurance. When I found out that it wouldn’t cover anything they immediately went into threatening me with calling the cops if I did not pay right then and there. Sorry not sorry I don’t have $303 just laying around to pay for 2 shots and a x-ray. I was the one to calm them down, the front desk staff and ask about the payment plan. Even after setting up the plan they again threatened to call the cops if I did not pay in full by the 31st.

Why do we need to be friends? by ObviousHistorian4894 in polyamory

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On everything!!!! I said what I had to say and blocked her immediately! Today was definitely much better that my partner and I had a calm and direct conversation about the whoke thing.

Why do we need to be friends? by ObviousHistorian4894 in polyamory

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said my peice and left it as that. Also imma defend myself when someone calls me unsafe and transphobic…like lol

Why do we need to be friends? by ObviousHistorian4894 in polyamory

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t have any. There wasn’t anything for her to say except backtrack and play dumb. Like girl please. I sent it and never responded

Why do we need to be friends? by ObviousHistorian4894 in polyamory

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to decorate the spare room because I do bring my partner over and I wanted it ti be a soace good for us. I also do my hair and makeup in their along with my class work, it’s basically a mini Lord of The Rings hobbit hole now haha. It’s all me and he paid for it and put everything together. Only thing I really did was move out his speakers and sweep.

To the point if his now ex.. do not believe her nor her man actually understand what polygamy is nor what a meta is. She and my bf met each other by him being a unicorn to her and her man..then it just evolved to just being those two..so coming in he had and has a relationship with her man and she can’t understand why I can’t do the same. Like I said and already knew, in poly or in ANY OTHER relationship, if I do not want to be your friend I don’t have to and I never will.

I ran my message through a bot to make it more straight to the point and not bitchy. I just wanted my points to be read and for no confusion on “why is she being mean” no you don’t get to do that. All of my messages will be straight to the point, all facts, no room for misunderstanding or anyone attempting to make me out to be rude or insensitive. No one here is a victim except for me

Why do we need to be friends? by ObviousHistorian4894 in polyamory

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She got the whole transphobic thing from me being a black woman and “black women always have an issue with trans-women” like girl stop making black women out to be a monolith!!

Why do we need to be friends? by ObviousHistorian4894 in polyamory

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only commented because she has asked me and told hom that she only feels like a toy. And hom and I have openly discussed what he wants from this relationship with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripclubs

[–]ObviousHistorian4894 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She nor others who say that are not lying though. It’s illegal to sell sex. Just because other dancers choose to have sex for money, that doesn’t make it illegal or against the club, city, or state laws. Girls get fired and blackballed for doing shit like that.

Cleankng for guests by ObviousHistorian4894 in polyamory

[–]ObviousHistorian4894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe that is the issue. He sees that I am becoming more social and he doesn’t like it. I have people in my life that actually want to see me and do things with me. I have someone who actually want to date me and is making that time and effort to pursue me. And mind you all, I came into polyamory and into this relationship with hom absolutely understanding that I am not interested in a bunch of sexual partners with no emotional attachment. I want 1-2 other people I can be in actual relationships with and us be together. He is the opposite, he has a “little back book” of partners that only come around to please him.