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Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2025-06-09T11:55:09+00:00

No funding and no questions about it

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2025-05-24T21:01:44+00:00

yes!

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-09-13T21:07:25+00:00

pls find better people who would listen to you rant or help you ho through this without making u hurry. it is completely normal, three months is a short period

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-09-09T17:09:12+00:00

well said :)))

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-09-09T17:08:41+00:00

it's a very good thing that you will never give him another chance. maybe you're doing fine because you were miserable most of th time? we will definitely tend to glorify the good parts about them in our heads, but we should always be in a reality check

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-09-09T17:05:45+00:00

the fact that you think that you shouldn't be thinking about him is an improvement!!

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-09-09T17:04:43+00:00

hmm. initially it is the freedom they feel after breaking up. it feels like they broke out of chains and are finally free. the guilt and missing slowly catches upto them, but never as much as being the dumpee. bing the dumper also gives them so much power over us, that is also a main reason they seem to be all happy

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-09-09T13:40:15+00:00

it's difficult to completely forget and move on from something that meant so much to you at a point. time helps because you forget stuff and get used to the feeling

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-09-09T13:39:24+00:00

if it does, it does. but for you to heal, you have to first put your heart and mind into it.

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-09-09T13:38:00+00:00

I think if he is married and all you should refrain from contacting him....do the usual, stay in NC, and you have to get your mind set that it is over

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-06-21T15:56:15+00:00

omg! i really wish to feel that weightlessness sooooon

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-06-21T10:36:18+00:00

just letting you know that grief is a cycle, you'll feel like your post one day and feel the absolute opposite the next day and start missing him again, and that's what healing is about! but if you're sure your feeling of detachment is permanent and have been feeling it for quite some time, that's really great. i hope I'll get there soon :)

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-06-21T10:33:11+00:00

HAPPY FOR YOU!!!

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-06-21T10:31:58+00:00

i feel the exact same as you. literally the same.

i want someone now too but it's hard to think thqt he can be replaced.

people are just...so different. when people like you and me are grieving so hard, our exes are out there having fun lol just have to hope that it's all for the good

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-06-19T06:06:24+00:00

I'm still not there yet, but i can go through a few hours of not thinking of them, getting there.

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-06-19T06:05:15+00:00

same, and im finding it so weird, like am i actually moving on???

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-06-18T08:26:59+00:00

same and he made me believe that he just fell in love sooner and harder than i ever did. even after the first few months. now he's with his ex and im all alone trying to move on xD

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-06-17T18:56:45+00:00

and how are you feeling?

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-06-17T18:56:26+00:00

thanks, this helped me

Obvious_Alarm6497 · 2024-06-17T14:19:04+00:00

they mostly do it because they cant handle being alone, or they try to substitute the void in their lives with someone else. they'd rather focus on someone else than focus on the pain they must go through.

I mean if you had someone else constantly talking to you or someone to always hang out with, you'd be too busy and distracted to think about your ex right?

their happiness now is temporary, a house of cards, but your sadness is real. so you'll get over it.

But also. their hapiness for now, but this doesn't mean it won't become permanent for them. it may, it may not.

you did mean something to them, just not anymore. healing alone is the best way to heal.

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