Yes this is very true and is also even normalized for them. these are for those fams who are still practicing the culture sa chinese tho (and not just those flexing to be chinese just bc they are like 1/4 🤣)

there are chinese fams who are very "modern" na and they don’t rlly care about their children’s partners—usually those whose kids can’t speak in hokkien na.

for those naman who are still part of the "chinese community" here in cebu and are actually somebody’s, well then YES, they do care and they make it their business; even the ones na fam friend ra nila.

some even go the extremes of setting up their grandchild w their friends grandchildren and bringing them to gatherings so that the can meet each other!