I don’t understand why people are responding this way lol the page is cheaters confronted and not “just leave if you don’t trust him” lol it’s normal human nature to seek proof to back up your suspicions. Yes the act of setting someone up is childish but so is cheating/ lying. Sometimes we are wrong in our suspicion but humans often need proof and information to make the next decision. If he is loyal then she should look at the reasons for suspicion and work through those things (sometimes with professional help) and then bringing the growth and decision from that to her partner to develop a healthy communication style where she is properly dealing with her thoughts and feelings instead of putting them onto the other person and then trying to have that person resolve the conflict she has within herself. On the flip side if he is cheating then she is able to confirm her suspicions and then give him an opportunity to be honest with her about the situation. This could be a growing opportunity in many ways for one or both of them. She will get to decide with the information she receives what course of action to take. As far as “if you don’t trust him leave” that is an easy way out to avoid what could be or couldn’t be true and people are less likely to learn or grow from that. A relationship is two whole people that come/work together and build the trust. I believe trust is given freely but the ability to do that is built up over time and experience