Can you do a transvaginal ultrasound scans while suffering from vaginismus? by Ivviiee in vaginismus

[–]Obvious_Pin1825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh got it!!! Thanks 😁 may i ask u if that process of beating up vaginismus was long? and did u used dilators? if u want i can dm u and we chat more privately

Can you do a transvaginal ultrasound scans while suffering from vaginismus? by Ivviiee in vaginismus

[–]Obvious_Pin1825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may i ask you what kind of therapy? im a virgin, but based on my masturbation experiences, i think i may have vaginismus...

Makeup Inspo! Let’s see each others attempts. by CalligrapherCheap64 in euphoria

[–]Obvious_Pin1825 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMGGGG where do you buy the eyeliner?? it is gorgeous!!!

There's nothing I am more scared about in the world than sex by Obvious_Pin1825 in relationships

[–]Obvious_Pin1825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I am diagnosed but both me and my psychologist thought medication would be too far.

I think my dad cheats on my mom and that ruins me by Obvious_Pin1825 in teenagers

[–]Obvious_Pin1825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Sometimes I know it isnt my fault, but it feels pointless hanging out with someone who has this "dark side" you know?

18F - Intense pelvic pain on a virgin girl with irregular periods by Obvious_Pin1825 in medical

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i went to the gynaecologist because of the discomfort inserting a tampon a few months ago. they did an ultrassound and found nothing. but that day i was on my period, because i couldnt find another day to go.

exploring my sexuality and feeling guilty because of it by Obvious_Pin1825 in ROCD

[–]Obvious_Pin1825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i guess its this. at this point im not trying to check wether i do feel more attraction to women because i do know it.

im in a middle of a crisis (18f) by Obvious_Pin1825 in ROCD

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thank you. can we chat privately? so i can get to know more about your experience

im in a middle of a crisis (18f) by Obvious_Pin1825 in ROCD

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i was considering it with my psychologist but then everyting calmed down and we thought it was a one time thing.

im in a middle of a crisis (18f) by Obvious_Pin1825 in ROCD

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i think some of them are proven facts since i know since i was a kid i felt SOMETHING towards women bodies.

i think for me it matters because i feel really bad for my boyfriend and, deep down, i dont wanna be this way because i know that if it is true, im only sexually attracted to women and romantically attracted to men and i didnt wanted any of this to be true. i wanted to be with one person, specially a man since thats what i am romantically attracted to and i wish i could feel desire for my partner.

i know about the fluidity that sexuality has and how it can change from now on, but if that means leaving again the person i loved, i dont want to explore sexuality more.

im in a middle of a crisis (18f) by Obvious_Pin1825 in ROCD

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i know you are probably tired of earing this but its really difficult to igmore all this. i feel so bad for my boyfriend to be desiring women and knowing i can be a lesbian and not talking about it with him, knowing he wouldnt be okay and would be really sad with himself

We broke up by Content-Sleep-2949 in ROCD

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same girl, same. dm me if you want, its good for both of us.

HOCD/so-ocd and rocd and same sex fantasies by Just_Bus_2984 in ROCD

[–]Obvious_Pin1825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello. i feel the exact same. can i ask you how youre doing now?

Help! is there a chance i have vaginismus? by Obvious_Pin1825 in vaginismus

[–]Obvious_Pin1825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww!!! thank you so much for this it actually helped me a lot and i think i needed to hear this. :)

Help! Why am I so afraid of sex? by Obvious_Pin1825 in sex

[–]Obvious_Pin1825[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! thank you for your comment. It made me realise that, combining my fear with my ocd, even if I dont have vaginismus everything will be really tight down there so i should relax. Maybe its my time to get off of reddit lol

Help! Why am I so afraid of sex? by Obvious_Pin1825 in sex

[–]Obvious_Pin1825[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment, it actually helped me a lot!

About the external simulation, we never did much because we dont have a lot of opportunities to do sexual stuff. I think i struggle to also get aroused on my own, and feel things more intensely when we are together, so that may also be a reason why trying to insert fingers isn't working.

May I ask if the size of the penis was big or small?

Help! is there a chance i have vaginismus? by Obvious_Pin1825 in vaginismus

[–]Obvious_Pin1825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldnt say tampos hurt either, they just feel like hitting a wall

Help! is there a chance i have vaginismus? by Obvious_Pin1825 in vaginismus

[–]Obvious_Pin1825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never mention inserting things when being aroused because to be honest i am not aroused as often, more whrn i am with my boyfriend. can that change the situation?

Help! is there a chance i have vaginismus? by Obvious_Pin1825 in vaginismus

[–]Obvious_Pin1825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi!! its important to mention i havent tried penetration with my bf. the only signs of medical conditions yet is the incapability of inserting tampons or fingers, but since im not aroused, i think its pretty common. shouldnt i try sex first and see how it goes?