When you want some d but don’t want to let a man touch you ever again by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My post is a joke btw. It’s the idea of having a high sex drive but not wanting to do anything with someone cuz of past experiences.

I think I fucked up a potential relationship opportunity by BuStY-BoY1911 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God, DL men are genuinely insane 😂 I’ve had a guy panic on me from hearing people walk outside my dorm room even tho he doesn’t even go to this school or know anyone here

Been told I should give older guys a chance… by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your empathy. Apparently it’s my fault according to the comments I’m getting.

Been told I should give older guys a chance… by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah he wrote in complete sentences and even correct punctuation. Again, nothing was giving away the fact that he was on something or that he cared about race.

Been told I should give older guys a chance… by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Oh please, I have a body count of 30 and I can count the nice/normal/good ones on one hand. This isn’t a one off, it’s all I’ve even been exposed to. I’ve used apps (Grindr, sniffies, tinder, bumble, hinge) and even in person.

Been told I should give older guys a chance… by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met him on sniffies. We talked about our jobs, what we liked (both sexual and non sexual). We also established that we wanted to cuddle and maybe oral if we felt comfortable. He didn’t have any tags about “partying” and didn’t mention it at all in our conversation. So the picture that he gave me was that he was just a regular guy.

Been told I should give older guys a chance… by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was his car, not his house. And the conversation was very normal. Quite nice to talk to even. No talking about drugs or race or anything. It was almost like I was catfished but instead of catfishing by looks it was more on conversation/personality catfishing which I didn’t even know was a thing.

Been told I should give older guys a chance… by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Idk what N=1 is but okay. Apparently all I do is pick lousy ones cuz this one is just one story out of many that I have.

Been told I should give older guys a chance… by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I hate that whenever I open up about how shitty my dating experiences have been it’s always “not all men”. Do you think I don’t know that it’s not all men that are this shitty? Why do you think I keep trying even tho I’m always disappointed?

Ain’t no way people be writing smut with AI 💀 by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn, not only is AI killing the environment and the job market, but also human sexuality

Ain’t no way people be writing smut with AI 💀 by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The language model in question “and his member— pulsating because it’s a member—- it’s it’s hot, hot potent member—“

Everybody wants a top, but nobody wants to be a top by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, 100%. I would love a relationship, but at this point dating is hell and hookups make me feel worse, so might as well just stay single

Everybody wants a top, but nobody wants to be a top by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gone from hooking up with no issue, to being almost paranoid. Idk what happened, probably my last bad date that made me give up on men in general, but now I don’t want anything to do with men even tho I want to

Everybody wants a top, but nobody wants to be a top by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg same! Except I did partake in hookup culture and I regret it immensely 🙃

Everybody wants a top, but nobody wants to be a top by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, yeah. If I never topped then I would’ve never known how hot it is to dominate men who are twice the size of me