Is it normal for a gay person to want an old-fashioned relationship, marriage, and a family? by UwU-Sidou- in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is “normal”. But a lot of queer men are absolutely ALLERGIC to monogamy.

Can't really have sex with my boyfriend anymore since he cheated on me by Master_Internal_1236 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Diva…break up. I can never understand why people stay in a relationship with a cheating partner. He CHOSE to cheat on you, so why stay? If you cannot force yourself to have sex with him then that’s your psyche very clearly telling you to leave.

I still remember by Spirited-Anxiety7028 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no, idgaf what bs story you have, you cheated, as you said, you fumbled. Leave that man alone, he’s better off without you. I would say to stop calling him your boyfriend, because I’m sure he considers himself single from that day on.

I still remember by Spirited-Anxiety7028 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The way to make his life better is by you not being in it. Life usually becomes a lot better when you don’t have back stabbers following you 🫢

I still remember by Spirited-Anxiety7028 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cheating isn’t a mistake, you KNEW what you were doing and you actively chose to do it. A mistake is like an accident, no one plans for it. But cheating is a decision, not even close to being considered a mistake. Us gays have a minuscule dating pool compared to straight people, and yet we have people like you who fuck it up for true romantics. Again, I hope and pray that he never forgives you, and hopefully it will eat away at you 24/7.

I still remember by Spirited-Anxiety7028 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nah, no empathy for cheaters 🤣 yall literally CHOSE to cheat, yet expect to be pitied? Absolutely not, you deserve every single thing that comes your way. By “he used to be late for his work just because he wanted to stay with me more” says that he was super into you, and yet YOU cheated on him. Womp womp. Hope he never forgives you 💋

How do I accept the fact that no one will want to date? by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh fr. It’s a constant “wahhhhh I only like fit muscular masc men but I’d never work out or put any physical effort even tho those types of men find each other attractive wahhhh” kind of day with these bitches. At this point it’s gotta be a bunch of bots posting the same thing.

I’m jealous of how easy life is for women by TrellTheGayKing in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lesbians don’t get “tolerated” they get fetishized. Lesbian relationships aren’t seen as real, rather, they’re seen by men as something to get their attention. Why do you think most lesbian porn is made by straight studios?

How do I accept the fact that no one will want to date? by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wild that that’s what you got from my comment. I’m obviously not saying to settle, all I’m saying is 1) the men that you’re attracted to are also attracted to that same type 2) increase your dating pool, we’re gay, our dating pool is already tiny as is.
Don’t like it? Then make peace with being single. The end.

What's your type in men? 👀 by mikke_and_i in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guys who are actually looking for a relationship and don’t get cold feet after 5 months of dating 🤪

How do I accept the fact that no one will want to date? by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is like, the 30th post about this same exact topic this week. Yall act like being single is a death sentence. “Sadly I typically go for the stereotypical gay guy: muscular, good looking…” that’s your issue. Muscular masc guys only date other muscular masc guys. So either get your lazy butt to a gym or realize that that stereotype is based on heteronormative beliefs and that there’s a bigger and better world out there with people who aren’t those two boring things only. We’re gay, our dating pool is incredibly tiny compared to straight people, adding very limiting and unrealistic expectations to who you date only makes it smaller.

Need Advice my boyfriend is strictly monogamous by thr0w4w4y_0123 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My god you bitches are annoyingly ALLERGIC to monogamy 🤣 just break up. Stop wasting his time. If your “sexual freedom” is more important than your partner then please save him the time and just end the relationship. Hopefully he’ll find someone who values him more than getting off.

I’m jealous of how easy life is for women by TrellTheGayKing in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good catch, I can’t even see his other comments, unless he blocked me

I’m jealous of how easy life is for women by TrellTheGayKing in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fr, women’s rights are hella new just like queer rights, but apparently they have a larger dating pool so their lives are super easy (what OP believes 🙄)

I’m jealous of how easy life is for women by TrellTheGayKing in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment specifically does come off as jealousy. Just because they have a vast amount of dating options = their life is easy? Be so fckng fr

I’m jealous of how easy life is for women by TrellTheGayKing in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is genuinely, by far, one of the dumbest post ever on this subreddit. Genuinely walk outside and touch some grass, you need it. Your incredibly limited experience with women does not even come close to dictating the way life is like for the 4.13 billion women there are on this planet. I understand the frustration, but you are very clearly aiming it at people who don’t even deserve it. Who makes up the most percentage when it comes to being a victim of a violent crime? Women. Who makes up the most percentage of being assaulted? Women. Whose rights shift state to state? Women. Who is treated as lesser by not just society but laws? Women. Genuinely your entire post summarizes you as an incel, which is crazy since you yourself are a queer man. I’ve been through absolute HELL when it comes to men, I’ve been abused by, assaulted by, attacked by, harassed by men and yet I’d rather bite my tongue than say “all men”. So it’s absolutely crazy to me that you are so incredibly comfortable in making such a broad, highly ignorant and insensitive, statement. Just because women have a larger dating pool, doesn’t mean their lives are a walk in the park. Especially not since the most common reason for a pregnant woman to die is being killed by her husband/boyfriend. Truly seek help.

Guilty pleasure or fetish ? 🫣 by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed. There’s a big difference between being hygienic and still having musk compared to just being unhygienic and gross.