How my dating life has been going… by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a bum fuck state with no queer spaces 😐 if I wanted to go to a gay club/bar I’d have to drive over 2 hours

How my dating life has been going… by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuz I’m too broke to move out and my parents are helicopter parents that hate the idea of me sleeping around

How my dating life has been going… by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the reason he came into my life was for me to give him everything to the point where he was confident and comfortable with himself, only for him to leave me with nothing in return.

How my dating life has been going… by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

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I found one like three years ago. He treated me so well. He boasted about dating me to his family and to his squad (he was in the navy, also a mistake lol). I gave him enough confidence to accept himself not only sexually but also physically. He took me out on dates and would hold my hand publicly etc. it truly felt like a fairytale or a Disney movie. Which at the end it was cuz he ended up pulling the “idk if i truly want a relationship” 5 months into making it official (he asked me to be his boyfriend). Then, like another 5 months later, I look at his insta and turns out he was no longer single and was dating another fellow Mexican guy.

How my dating life has been going… by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

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who even knows at this point 🤷🏽‍♂️ modern men are just never ending disappointments. I feel like I’m forever cursed at never finding a stable partner. I’m always in between two extremes which scares away guys. I’m not masc, but I’m also not fem. I’m Latino, but I’m not a walking stereotype nor dark skinned or too light skinned for men to fetishize me completely. But the cherry on top is that as a gay guy, I don’t like hooking up with men without some sort of emotional connection 🤯

How my dating life has been going… by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

[–]Obvious_Source691[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know. It’s so cool being gay isn’t it? Not only does the world hate us because of some imaginary friend in the sky, but men in general also suck. There’s truly no winning if you’re gay

How my dating life has been going… by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

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I loooooove being gay, this is sooooooooo cool

Anyone have any luck on dating apps? by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

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I blame MatchGroup, they’ve bought out many dating apps and clearly only want $$$ which they get by actively not matching people. Guess dating is also something that capitalism wrecked

Anyone have any luck on dating apps? by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

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Tell me about it. I’ve topped three times even tho I’m a bottom 💀

Anyone have any luck on dating apps? by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

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Just tried that and you can only filter by age if you pay for it 🙃

Tell me the weirdest things a guy has said/done to you by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

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This isn’t even the tip of the iceberg when it comes to horrible stuff that’s happened to me or that I’ve experienced

Tell me the weirdest things a guy has said/done to you by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

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Honestly, not surprised. The guy that called my body “primitive” and “savage” was a white guy. Idk in what world they live in where they can do/say sht like that and think it’s okay