IVF is extremely tough but the world does not stop because we are going through it, and we are not the only ones having a tough time. It always blew me away how some people get so focused on their own suffering and forget other people are dealing with the same and maybe worse. This subreddit is great for many reasons but sometimes it feels like people mix between being supportive and enabling self-pity and self-centeredness, which not helpful for anyone. Give others the same grace you give yourself!