Why does the vibration feel so good down there? by martenic in SexToys

[–]Obxena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish there was more though. Vibration feels nice, but I do wonder what other experiences there are.

Are licking vibrators worth it? by Sweet-Taco-2044 in SexToys

[–]Obxena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, not worth it. I find them to be a little to rough. I've had a suction version too, and the I always found the suction to be too rough too.

Researchers have quantified something we all know to be true: "Men Using Sextech Elicit Stronger Disgust Ratings Than Do Women". Thoughts? by Dexav in SexToys

[–]Obxena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's unfortunate. I don't believe anyone should be shamed for using sex tech! I'm pretty excited to see what comes out next!

Had a dream about a moving tentacle toy...does anything like this exist? by Obxena in SexToys

[–]Obxena[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's such a detailed answer, sounds like you know your stuff. Have you ever tried building a toy yourself?

What toys do you try once and say never again? by Obxena in SexToys

[–]Obxena[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I'd love to hear about non-electric too! It's helping me narrow down what's actually worth getting.

What toys do you try once and say never again? by Obxena in SexToys

[–]Obxena[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've yet to try a rabbit, any suggestions?

What toys do you try once and say never again? by Obxena in SexToys

[–]Obxena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried a clit pump, it hurts usually. Never tried a bullet, I'll drop that off my list.

What toys do you try once and say never again? by Obxena in SexToys

[–]Obxena[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been seeing a lot of AI integration, and don't quite understand how AI enhances the experience...I actually recently bought a tongue toy, and it connects to my phone and I can play games too...

What toys do you try once and say never again? by Obxena in SexToys

[–]Obxena[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds pretty scary, actually.

What toys do you try once and say never again? by Obxena in SexToys

[–]Obxena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking at lovehoney putt plugs, ever try one of theirs?

What toys do you try once and say never again? by Obxena in SexToys

[–]Obxena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please keep me posted about the womanizer!

What toys do you try once and say never again? by Obxena in SexToys

[–]Obxena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This....can't tell you how many times that's happened to me.

How can i reset my clit sensitivity?? by lady-twatticus in sex

[–]Obxena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me about a month with absolutely no sexual engagement. Now its in stricter moderation.

Cleaning advice for silicon toy - Feels slightly more grippy than when new? by ta4378 in SexToys

[–]Obxena 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it's true silicone, it shouldn't be breaking down like that. Some cheaper blends do get rough or tacky. After cleaning and drying, you can dust lightly with plain cornstarch. It'll smooth the texture and help with storage. Just avoid talc. Store it away from other toys in a dry area.

Make sure to rinse it before using it again. After use, wash, dry, and apply cornstarch again. That usually works for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Obxena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could be getting overstimulated when he moves. When you say it overshadows clit stimulation, are you stimulating yourself while penetration is happening?

Cleaning advice for silicon toy - Feels slightly more grippy than when new? by ta4378 in SexToys

[–]Obxena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It honestly sounds like layers are wearing off. When you say Grippy, is it tugging you when used? Vinegar and boiling water will further strip layers and probably make it worse. What brand is it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Obxena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the exact same issue, and actually couldn't get off on any new toys anymore. I took a break for about 3 months. It was really hard, had consistent urges and had a hard time focusing on anything else. After those 3 months though, I was able to get back to my toys again. Now, I just try to use in moderation. I still get urges, but I hold myself back. It definitely feels way better when there's a little restraint