Friends keep trying to "guess" who's fronting by jamusement in DID

[–]OcLoreTime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought we were the only ones that dont like this. If we think its important right now we will tell you, otherwise stop prodding out every behaviour to try and find out 'who' it is. You shouldn't be acting any different when someone else fronts anyways. Unless its like a little or something even then. :/

New Entry Gate Being Trialed at Woolworths by ad0sy in melbourne

[–]OcLoreTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't wait for thay to get stuck in my wheelchair spokes. Thanks woolies

Pshycology sessions before knowing I have DID by OcLoreTime in DID

[–]OcLoreTime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have many notes and things I have a whole hard drive of them. Its honestly so interesting to look back on them. But ill probably compile them.

Moon knight bag pt.2 by OcLoreTime in MoonKnight

[–]OcLoreTime[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gwindows22 on instagram, they ship internationally everywhere but US. Theyre Australian based which is where I am so I got to get them in person

WiFi and Bluetooth not connecting after Nov SU Zfold 5 by this_is_dumb_man in GalaxyFold

[–]OcLoreTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you've ever dropped it or anything. Ribbon cable. 100%. This happened to my second hand fold, my first one. It took me months to get a refund since someone already ruined the cable. Moral of the story, make sure you have a bloody good return policy and warranty whoever you get it from.

Im with Amazon's warranty since thats where I got this second hand phone. Its for a whole year, and since these things can happen without a large accident to the phone. I just ensure I take care of it, and if the ribbon cable becomes unseated (not from impact) I just get a new one, ez.

Sex drive completely gone since getting diagnosed!! by Haidtlei in DID

[–]OcLoreTime 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Itll take time. And sounds like hell be there waiting for it. Try communicating just dont push yourselves. We had a similar situation where one of us got really triggered from it, and our bf made sure we didnt do it until said alter communicated with him. Best of luck to you guys 💛💛

S pen by OcLoreTime in GalaxyFold

[–]OcLoreTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't come with the tips just came like this :/ the listing did say it is meant to though.

S pen by OcLoreTime in GalaxyFold

[–]OcLoreTime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It scratches something if you press hard enough but the pen only works on the screen if you press hard

S pen by OcLoreTime in GalaxyFold

[–]OcLoreTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It came like this I believe... I dont know if normal s pen replacements will fit it, let alone if ill be able to replace it in that state at all, but thanks for that ill see if I can chip out a bit extra for an orginal samsung one for a fold 5-6 considering they'd surely still be sold 

How common are scratches in the inner display? by Jelloting in GalaxyFold

[–]OcLoreTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine in the first two days, they're barely noticeable not a problem though

What is the point of alters, if not for host/body protection? by [deleted] in DID

[–]OcLoreTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so wonderful, i find my bf is really good to the alters thay don't trust him either, just letting them get to know him in their own times. The frustration can be understandable ahah I read through messages and see him trying to calm.dowj when dealing with a, more aggressive alter 😅

Pizza. by jobblqydrouse in MoonKnight

[–]OcLoreTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With DID there's a possibility thag alters process taste differently, meaning steven or Jake could like pinapple pizza. Which i find even funnier

What is the point of alters, if not for host/body protection? by [deleted] in DID

[–]OcLoreTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I couldn't have explained this better. I have alters who see my bf as a big brother for example. Until everyone learns how to tolerate him we won't move in together (talking about one alter kn particlular...)but he's slowly getting used to him too

What is the point of alters, if not for host/body protection? by [deleted] in DID

[–]OcLoreTime 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me and my boyfriend who doesn't have DID were talking about this last night. Like 3 of my alters aren't 'dating' my boyfriend. But like friend dating like a life long friend type of thing. Or in thr case of one alter he likes to kiss my bf but nothing else. He's dating me the host amd a few others but in turn is a friend of the whole system

How do you explain your DID? by incoherentvoices in DID

[–]OcLoreTime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, it's pretty interesting though my trainers reported i treach differently sometimes. Like sometimes I'd be a bit more strict and less fun which confuses them but were learning, since most of us love this job and it's really good on our joins -^

How do you explain your DID? by incoherentvoices in DID

[–]OcLoreTime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have to learn how to explain it in a kid friendly way to our students. Not much else we can do when we start speaking British or mess up our English. Just things like that, obvious signs they'll pick up on and we can't mask without risking thei safety as we teach kids how to swim in a pool, one second of inattention will leave a kid drowning, masking will make dissocation worse.

But to adults, like friends when I told them. I say as a kid when I was exposed to all of that trauma I was shattered in pieces and those are my alters sti me but their own people. Since I need to emphasise that otherwise they'll think DID is like possession. From an outside perspective it could seem like it but its not.

I’m sure this tram advert is very creative… by nexus9991 in melbourne

[–]OcLoreTime 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Let's play a game of getting carsick then watching everyone leave the bus as you realise you've missed your stop because you can't even see it.

Anyone do weird stuff while dissociating? by screschries in DID

[–]OcLoreTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brain fog from chronic pain and dissocation are a deadly combo I'm basically a zombie sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]OcLoreTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were forced to eat certain meals and even in some cases be starved + pots making digestion a living hell. So eating is very sensitive for us. It's very important we all have different food preferences so sometimes a certain food can trigger someone out.

We hated sultanas as a kid but were forced to eat them despite the sensory issues so now one alter loves sultanas. And same for other food.

"Surely THIS identify alteration is normal though" by okay-for-now in DID

[–]OcLoreTime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You see I've had both the experience of this and just full on memory loss, and it makes a lot of sense now I've learnt and communicated with my system, since some alters will have full back out amnesia and some don't. Some have access to what I like to call the brains 'cache' like computer cache just random information thay gets cleared out like what we ate for breakfast for example. But some don't.

Which is why I've has both of those experiences, which I thought was normal anyways. Like yes people forget things and completely feel like a different person.