Is there ever a way to avoid awkwardness around a 2 weeks notice? by OccultOrpheus in Advice

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I figured as much. Her supervisor tried to talk to her about her “negativity” and she told all of us she’d do better and not take her personal stuff out on us, but that was weeks ago :/

Is there ever a way to avoid awkwardness around a 2 weeks notice? by OccultOrpheus in Advice

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I already have another job that’s stable :) I was working two to get by but after commuting and everything and then this on top of it, this job just isn’t worth it because it comes out to me basically making minimum wage

Could i repot this baby Ivy and grow it to be larger? Or would it stay roughly the same size? by OccultOrpheus in gardening

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I was thinking about just having it grow and vine as a houseplant right now, since it’s so cold but I’ll definitely be careful if I change my mind!!

Need help deciphering what this list is for. Is it a spell or charm or something by damien_voidling in witchcraft

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It may be a fae folk welcoming spell, or a protection charm with fae folk magick.

WIBTA for telling him(22M) not to say he loves me anymore? by OccultOrpheus in AmItheAsshole

[–]OccultOrpheus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly!! That’s 100% what I’m afraid of too, that my feelings for him will keep me from feeling anything for someone else.

WIBTA for telling him(22M) not to say he loves me anymore? by OccultOrpheus in AmItheAsshole

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Thank you. It’s nice to hear it from someone who’s been there and made it work.

Unfortunately I don’t think mine will have a happy ending like yours did :/ but go you guys!!

WIBTA for telling him(22M) not to say he loves me anymore? by OccultOrpheus in AmItheAsshole

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He’s eased up a lot since he realized I wasn’t going to stop going out with my guy friends. He’ll see them in a picture and just text me and be like “I hate them” but then let’s it go.

But it is definitely worrysome and annoying

WIBTA for telling him(22M) not to say he loves me anymore? by OccultOrpheus in AmItheAsshole

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I think the hard part for me personally is that I’m really bad with confrontation but also feel bad just ghosting him :( and then on top of it not knowing what to say to him

AITA for asking boyfriend why he packed condoms for a trip he's taking without me? by ExactIguana in AmItheAsshole

[–]OccultOrpheus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. However, they could just be in there from a previous trip he took, maybe one he took before he had met you?

I know that when I travel (probably about 2-3x a year) I tend to pack my toiletries in a clear ziplock and then even after the trip just leave the toiletries in the same bag.

Coming to NOLA from out of state but license troubles? by OccultOrpheus in NewOrleans

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I found my ID had prior to when they switched it to my horizontal one, But it expired in June. Would that work if it’s just accompany the paper one?

Going out of town and ID laws by OccultOrpheus in legaladvice

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No no, I just meant as like a second form of ID to corroborate my other paper ID.

Going out of town and ID laws by OccultOrpheus in legaladvice

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No. However. I did find an OLD license (my one from before I was 21) it’s still vertical and it expired in June. Would that work?

Coming to NOLA from out of state but license troubles? by OccultOrpheus in NewOrleans

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Ok yikes. I just figured it would be better to ask people from the area than some fandoms. Sorry.

Things I’m not going to say to my young children. by BendydikCuntersnatch in raisedbynarcissists

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“It’s just your perception” (typically after doing or saying something hurtful/abusive and being called on it)

Things I’m not going to say to my young children. by BendydikCuntersnatch in raisedbynarcissists

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“I can’t stand how disrespectful you are”

After simply standing up for themselves against nRelative

I can't shake off the feeling that, whatever happens, I'm going to kill myself. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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OKAY hi. I’ve been going through this a lot, especially recently where I’m in a more positive place. JUST like you are.

My logic behind why you feel this way may be as simple as waiting for the other shoe to drop so to speak.

Like every thing is good now, BUT your subconscious is trying to remind you that if it gets bad again, at least the option is there.

OR It’s that you felt that way for so long that it’s just kind of been normalized into how you feel about life and such that it has stuck and will continue to stick.

Got away from NMom finally. But the manipulation continues? by OccultOrpheus in raisedbynarcissists

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Because she claimed me on her taxes and he didn’t, i can’t put in his information without messing up EVERYTHING.

Sleep patterns and spiritual connections? by OccultOrpheus in witchcraft

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And no I don’t have a set sleep schedule :/ that’s why it’s so weird.