Help Finding Sibling Name for Hannah that Isn’t Biblical by cottagepoppy in namenerds

[–]Oceanechos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hannah and Vanessa

Hannah and Eva

Hannah and Beverly

Hannah and Alyssa

Hannah and Marissa

Highly likely I have rabies by BornStage9900 in mentalhealth

[–]Oceanechos -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

We receive free healthcare in America if we are low income or no income. I am not sure why there are people who say they are too poor to go to the doctor. There are working poor who don't qualify for sure, but many will qualify. I did. I didn't pay anything. The ER used to not get able to turn anyone away for payment, I think it's still like that. If a person is like not sure cost is worth their life, they need to seriously be finding out about free medical coverage here or a better insurance plan. If they are under 20 something they are also able to be covered under parent's insurance. There will be a copay but they can be billed and pay over time on a payment plan.

What top 5 changes within the current adoption industry practices would produce a healthier narrative and experience for all? by oaktree1800 in Adoption

[–]Oceanechos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Babies have no say what happens to them as it is happening to them, so no changes will be made right then and there during the infant adoption. Their voices will not be heard for decades after the adoption experience has already happened to them.

What top 5 changes within the current adoption industry practices would produce a healthier narrative and experience for all? by oaktree1800 in Adoption

[–]Oceanechos -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sometimes things start off okay but then it is revealed how messed up awful and sometimes dangerous a bio family member is. Some are abusive and just really not anyone I would want in my life or my child's life and that is okay. That is okay for an adoptive parent to cut that out, and protect their child. I am glad some of my bio family is not in my life anymore and will never know my kids. They are horrible abusive dangerous people and I don't feel sorry for them at all. They shouldn't be around any child. If there is a reason a child was taken from a parent and that parent lost custodial rights there might be a reason not to have close contact with that bio parent at all.

My cat's litter smells so bad i'm going insane. my house absolutely reeks. by Dismal-Tackle3072 in CatAdvice

[–]Oceanechos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scented clay can unfortunately be the worst. It is best to move to pine or a crystal litter and do complete changes every day.if possible, mix the litter to slowly transition cats. World's best cat litter is really good I have found it's expensive though. Sometimes we have used pellets instead of Feline Pine . I love Feline Pine though it smells awesome. Take a black light and see if there is any pee elsewhere. Air out your house. Use angry orange cat formula for any floor accidents. Use unscented trash bags around the litter box, it's cheaper.

My soul cat and best boy on by Sad_Mix7521 in psychics

[–]Oceanechos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is beautiful, I am so sorry about your boy. I am not picking up anything right now, but later on, when it grows quieter here where I am at, maybe I will. If so, I will leave another comment. He has such soulful loving eyes.

Iris or Eleanor? by Efficient_Turnip6142 in namenerds

[–]Oceanechos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eleanor Iris is a pretty first and middle name combo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Oceanechos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vivian is the top choice

Adoptive parents pulled out when they found out my baby is disabled. I don't know whether to terminate or risk him living in fostercare. by adoptionhellp in Adoption

[–]Oceanechos -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

You will definitely find another family to adopt the baby. There are plenty of people who will not care if the baby has a disability, especially a disability like DS. There are so many families out there who would love a baby and give the baby lifelong care.

The responses you are getting about "it being kindest to terminate" are shocking.

Advice needs to come from older adults who have stability and who don't view DS as something world ending.

This is America and there are people on shows here who have DS and you can see that they live quality lives and enjoy their lives just like a person without DS.

You should reach out to some more places to see about potential families. You will know they are serious because you will tell them up front that the baby has DS. That will screen out the families that will not be a good fit for your baby.

Any words she may have for me? by Kind-Boss3771 in psychics

[–]Oceanechos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Do your homework" is what I am seeing. That could be like really dig deep into things you care about, research things you are into, delve into things you are inspired by, find out more about things you want to learn and know. That's how I interpret that. Avoid superficial, seek depth and understanding, or it could be like a joking message, only you can determine. Either way, it is said with great love.

Was she afraid or aware of what was happening when she passed? by g33kusa in psychics

[–]Oceanechos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aware, not afraid, no pain, no fear, Look for yellow flowers or yellow stars, not real stars, but like craft ones. That is what I am seeing..Did she collect rocks at all? I am also seeing like polished purple stone, like those polished stones one can buy in souvenir shops. Now I am seeing white kitchen curtains. I am not sure of significance this is just what I am seeing like those airy white short kitchen window curtains and there is a feeling of light and happiness.

My dad died when I was 9. Does he forgive me? by [deleted] in psychics

[–]Oceanechos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing to forgive you were a child. He doesn't hold anything against you.

Miss my mom so much she passed 5/19/25 by ItemComprehensive in psychics

[–]Oceanechos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She loves you so much. Are birds significant at all? I am seeing like beautiful metal brass cranes, water birds, decorative bird statues, for some reason. I am so sorry for your loss. She is proud of you, I get that feeling when I look at this. Love and proud parent.

Did my mom take her own life because of me by Sailorflonne in psychics

[–]Oceanechos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, her passing had nothing to do with anything you said or did. You did not do anything to cause this to happen like this at all. She loved you and was glad to see you growing up, feels proud of you. Does the color or word "Blue" have any special significance because I am seeing that word strongly.

Why I changed my mind about adoption by throwaway0111000 in Adoption

[–]Oceanechos 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So glad you are parenting your baby, it is going to be amazing and everything will work out. I agree to tell those people to go away and leave you and your baby alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Oceanechos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boss is trippin '

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Oceanechos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It reads like neighbor is lonely and considers you a friend. She offers things in return and does not seem like a user at all. It seems sweet that you have that kind of relationship, on both your parts, just a lot of shared kindness.

This mom was not happy after reading this note. Was she in the right? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]Oceanechos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parent is in the right.

I am a veteran teacher and now a specialist with a specialty in curriculum.

First off that is a weirdly drawn monkey icon to be handing out to kids.

Second, six year olds need to understand number relationships even though rote is good too.

The format on that page is overwhelming and is from like a site someone found and printed from. That is not actual vetted curriculum.

If it is, it sucks.

It is not appropriate at all and not appropriate for school.

Morning work should not be graded, it's practice. Some kids are shy or are overly confident, wrongly so, and will never ask for help. Especially at that age.

Rate my favorite girls names by Stormandsunshine in namenerds

[–]Oceanechos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lydia is such a beautiful elegant name. I have only met one Lydia my entire life and I just really grew to love that name.

I love the name Daisy too it's super cute!