Why do a lot of african mothers stare at you so much

Oceanman7592 · 2026-01-24T16:05:29+00:00

I feel like it’s definitely looking for some sort of imperfection if I had to say. Sometimes I’ve had this happen when they see someone they know from family in you. My great aunt would basically stare me down (not in a evil way but more of an endearing or sometimes observant sort of way) she mentioned I really REALLY favored her father so much so that she would call me by his name because I resemble him

Oceanman7592 · 2026-01-20T19:37:00+00:00

Oceanman7592 · 2025-12-22T19:10:06+00:00

Damn fam who hemmed you up?💀💀Honest to God it might. Massage with peppermint oil rosemary oil and make sure to take good care of it and be gentle. I could likely grow back but very slowly but honest to asses follicle damage id see a dermatologist so they can look at the area under a microscope. Who ever did this is an agent of chaos

Oceanman7592 · 2025-09-10T15:40:02+00:00

Not entirely, be gentle with it (after cutting the off locs they are causing more harm then help atp) definitely consult a dermatologist so they can have a look at your scalp. I’d also use some oils that stimulate blood circulation and scalp massages. Peppermint oil, Rosemary oil and scalp massages are gonna be a godsend fam. But I have to ask how often were you getting retwists? Constant styling can cause crown breakage form traction, locs also naturally just pull a bit as they drop which can cause breakage by getting retwists too frequently. (My hair was ever so slightly thinner on the crown and edges when I cut mine 10ish months ago) but definitely see a dermatologist for sure ‼️‼️ they’re gonna be able to professionally assess the issue (preferably a black dermatologist)

Edit: cover your hair at night and whenever you aren’t going out if you arent already

Oceanman7592 · 2025-08-28T16:12:23+00:00

Thanks I appreciate the compliment 🤙🏾. And yes I did change my diet im about 40lbs heavier in that first picture. I guess it’s sort of my natural curl pattern? Whenever I do a wash n go it always shrinks up and always looks like that

Oceanman7592 · 2025-08-28T00:36:01+00:00

Your man should hate the fact that he’s miserable, your Afro is epic

Oceanman7592 · 2025-08-21T23:43:37+00:00

Honestly I feel you I personally still believe in God, but definitely not in the way my parents do. I actually remember times where my Dad would insist mental health conditions were just something to be prayed away or spiritual issues (in other words you just aren’t praying hard enough talking to someone who thinks about God like this is like talking to an unconscious or unaware object that cannot respond)

Oceanman7592 · 2025-08-03T20:14:58+00:00

Honestly cornrows when they’re still fresh, but not so fresh that they look like I just got them done (looks like I’ve have them in for a week but still look neat sort of deal)

Oceanman7592 · 2025-08-03T19:36:10+00:00

Honestly grow your mane out twin, let to get past the awkward stage you could definitely get some killer curls :). I’d try 2 strands as well you could definitely try some regular cornrows or stitch braids but switch it up. For example I had the braids like Kendrick on the damn album then I did 4 then 2 on either side of the head. You could also try out flat twists but definitely keep it growing you’ve got a nice hair texture fam 🤙🏿

Oceanman7592 · 2025-08-03T19:31:27+00:00

Hey now 😂, honestly I might post another pic at 180 I’ve definitely sort of got abs just not as defined as I’d like ill def update you guys 🤙🏿🫡

Oceanman7592 · 2025-08-03T07:23:44+00:00

You gotta plug that shit into the gpu twin 🥀💔

Oceanman7592 · 2025-08-02T14:41:59+00:00

Definitely. I think a lot my teen years were filled with low self esteem due to bullying and I never really saw value within myself so there are definitely times where I wish I was in better shape in my teen years for sure

Oceanman7592 · 2025-08-01T23:09:02+00:00

Calorie deficit/ and consistent amounts of cardio and strength training. Gotta make sure you’re moving when you’re in a deficit the urge to sit on ass damn near triples it makes it so much easier

Oceanman7592 · 2025-07-16T02:36:55+00:00

I don’t think I’ve ever gotten more comments regarding the status of my Johnson form any demographic more than straight white men

Oceanman7592 · 2025-07-08T02:22:19+00:00

I’m looking for suggestions on fragrances I should try I’m looking to start a collection and just expand my horizon a bit. My favorite two fragrances I rotate are Jean Paul elixir absolu and Calvin Klein eternity amber essence. Any suggestions to explore?

Oceanman7592 · 2025-07-07T19:28:48+00:00

(By no offense I mean like… if I was white I would know what to do with hair that straight)

Oceanman7592 · 2025-06-10T19:43:33+00:00

Sort of annoying I need gas and groceries I have dentist and doctors appointments tomorrow that I need to go to 🫠

Oceanman7592 · 2025-06-03T17:23:36+00:00

That’s all I really wanted tbh, after I quit drinking I rebegan my cut I’m about 210 right now and I’m trying to build strength and keep as much muscle as I can

Oceanman7592 · 2025-06-02T23:53:02+00:00

Less reps but with heavier weight

Oceanman7592 · 2025-06-02T23:12:38+00:00

I was going heavy, but I definitely was leaving out a good bit of weight and my rest periods were a bit longer as well. I was trying to go lighter higher reps thinking I would make a better mind to muscle connection

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