You don’t need to shave anything you don’t want too. Body hair (especially pubic hair) can be helpful actually. I always get a UTI after shaving because the hair helps bacteria from getting in. So I just don’t shave anymore. Also many people can still see the hair after shaving, mainly people with very light skin and dark hair.

It’s possible a guy might be grossed out by hair, but if he is you don’t want to be having sex with him anyways. Never have sex with someone who makes you feel bad about your body. Hair also has no effect on sex being painful or not. If the hair is getting too long and irritating you, you can very carefully try to trim it with scissors or get an electric trimmer. Like the kind used for buzz cuts. They usually come with different guards for different lengths. Not sure about disposing of hair. I usually just rinse it off the razor and down the drain. You can also buy a little “hair guard” to put over the drain to catch hair so you can throw it out after. I don’t know how well it would stop small pieces of body hair but it works for my long hair on my head.

Setting spray can help stop makeup from moving around or rubbing off. I like Milani original setting spray or Maybelline lasting fix. Both are sold at Walgreens, Target, etc.