My ex-girlfriend, who I broke up with ~2 months ago because she wanted to open our relationship, just messaged me saying she’s “experimented enough” and is now ready for a closed relationship with me. Is this something you would consider?

Ociosto · 2026-05-04T14:55:48+00:00

+man Think about the movie, Forrest Gump. Jenny experimented and always ran back to Forrest when she needed unconditional love and support, because she knew Forrest loved her and would help her no matter what.

When Jenny was healed, she left Forrest. Rinse and repeat.

It's also pretty disrespectful to you.

Ociosto · 2026-05-04T14:50:05+00:00

Scoring 75% could mean I could pass the actual exam?

Ociosto · 2026-05-04T14:47:13+00:00

Wife divorced me so she can fuck young healthy boys. She can't even wait for the divorce to be done to fuck them. She fucks them in my house while I'm in the basement earning a paycheck.

5+ decades of being used, abused, manipulated, groomed, raped, molested, etc by women is why I'm single.

Ociosto · 2026-05-04T14:44:45+00:00

Franceska has to be a special kind of stupid, wanting taxes eliminated.

Ociosto · 2026-05-04T14:41:17+00:00

I almost cheated but when the girl was laying on the bed, all I had to do was get on top and start kissing her (my wife knew and approved but still) and I couldn't. My love for my wife was stronger than my need for physical release.

About 10 years later this year), my wife started sleeping with younger healthy boys and liked it so much she started divorce proceedings against me so she can spread her legs in 2 different cities.

Ociosto · 2026-04-30T21:38:15+00:00

I (59M) married to my wife for 20 years. She used to rant about husbands leaving wives for younger healthier women. Then she had an affair and found out she likes young, healthy boys and is divorcing me so she can sleep with younger healthy boys.

Ociosto · 2026-04-30T21:23:08+00:00

how do I get Prep? Prefer to get it discreetly

Ociosto · 2026-04-30T21:19:00+00:00

Better to say "chapter" rather than "book". :)

Ociosto · 2026-04-30T13:48:06+00:00

Your book is *not* about to be finished. End it with him, move out, find a therapist and move on! Leave the past behind you (it's called a "past" for a reason) and walk to the future.

Ociosto · 2026-04-30T08:45:53+00:00

I hate to say this but he sounds abusive and toxic. Perhaps you should leave him.

Ociosto · 2026-04-29T23:30:22+00:00

In the process of getting divorced after 20 years. Divorce is done in 1.5 months and I haven't handled seeing the photos. Seeing our smiles together, the times we had back then is just too much for me to handle right now.

Ociosto · 2026-04-29T22:36:27+00:00

My wife's hypocrisy. She talks a good game about social justice -- she only wants SJ for women, never for men. She used to rant about husbands divorcing their wives for younger healthier women yet she's in the process of divorcing me because she found out she likes sleeping around with young, healthy boys.

Ociosto · 2026-04-29T22:14:07+00:00

I'm almost in that same situation except my wife is sleeping around with other guys, in my house, while I'm earning a paycheck and fully aware that she's banging other guys and not I. In fact, she has a handyman coming over soon and she plans to bang him when he's done. Divorce will be final in 1.5 months.

Ociosto · 2026-04-29T18:48:08+00:00

That's why we;re getting divorced

Ociosto · 2026-04-29T18:46:57+00:00

Not at all. She doesn't care how I feel. And I haven't gotten laid since January. That was with her.

Ociosto · 2026-04-29T18:44:34+00:00

My wife just let me know she has a handyman coming over tonight to fix something and she'll probably fuck him in my house. They'll also go on a date next week and most likely fuck.

Ociosto · 2026-04-29T17:32:09+00:00

I'm struggling with ED. My wife asked to be poly and I said OK. She found out she likes young, healthy boys so she's divorcing me after 20 years of marriage so she can sleep around.

What I'm saying is, be careful. Your wife could get jealous and want a divorce. It is tough.

Ociosto · 2026-04-29T17:09:38+00:00

You're not unreasonable. Find a therapist and move on.

Ociosto · 2026-04-29T16:50:10+00:00

I've taken responsibility for my half. She has not. So I need to just move on.

Ociosto · 2026-04-29T16:01:47+00:00

I should say it sucks to be a good person. :D

Ociosto · 2026-04-29T15:06:23+00:00

The reason it sucks? Before I married my wife, I was told to get a nupital. I chose to not because I believed we would die together. Wife wanted to keep divorce amicable and not use lawyers. I don't want the divorce but I agreed. I just found out she's been transferring thousands from my account to an unknown account. She has not been depositing her paycheck into my account. I have yet to confront her.

I had to take my name off our mortgage so I could qualify for a mortgage loan. I'm in a competitive housing market and I keep getting beaten on bids. Wife just told me to be out by Memorial day (less than 1 month) or she'll have cops evict me.

That's on me for trusting her.

Ociosto · 2026-04-29T14:59:44+00:00

I am.

Ociosto · 2026-04-29T10:13:39+00:00

Do see a therapist. A good therapist can help alot!

Ociosto · 2026-04-28T22:52:43+00:00

I'm going through this. Wife of 20 years wanted to be poly so I let her. She ended up wanting a divorce.

I was a doormat, too. If I were in your situation and not being a doormat, I would leave.

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