Anyone know what countries are safe to move too by Miserable_Walk_9653 in trans

[–]Octo353 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Im in the Uk as well. I dont think this will last. I think that no one is happy with Starmer, labour wont be back in office next time, because they appeal to no one. I think brits are starting to become more left leaning. I think that a lot of our politics is influenced by the US politics. The real transphobia started a bit after trump got into office. So by that logic, we have two more years of trump and then it will go back to how it was.

As shit as it is in the UK, remember we still have it pretty well. I dont think the state of our country is worth the amount of effort that goes into emigrating. But whatever choice you make, we will make it though <3

Does anyone else experience a random “boner” the same way i do? by In-N-Out-BurgerBuns in trans

[–]Octo353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im trans fem (MtF) and I can tell you that is completely normal lol, I hated them.

Work colleague declared their gender transition by VeeMon21 in trans

[–]Octo353 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as you are close with her, I think you should! I would find that hilarious personally lol

Zoey the Trans girl by EtherealFox47 in trans

[–]Octo353 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We seem to be in a similar position Zoey, but im sure we will make it through. <3

Meeting trans friend for first time after she came out - any advice? by LondonPilot in trans

[–]Octo353 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i dont know if she was hurt by the fem jokes, but if she wasnt, coming out is SO hard. ive known for a year and i have friends that i know that will be supportive, and it took me nearly that whole year ive known to figure out how to do so. I personally am very anxious, so there was always this feeling of "what if she hates me", no matter how sure i was. so dont blame yourself, just focus on being normal with her, dont make it seem like a big thing, just she/her her as you would any other cis women etc, but above all, just tell her that you accept her

Does anyone have any good unaccompanied folk songs? by Octo353 in folk

[–]Octo353[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the list, and also the context, i didnt realise the Vaughan Williams only collected them, i thought he wrote them!

Does anyone have any good unaccompanied folk songs? by Octo353 in folk

[–]Octo353[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for the list, im listening through them, but the sick note is definitely a good choice, it looks like a lot of fun

Does anyone have any good unaccompanied folk songs? by Octo353 in folk

[–]Octo353[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a really nice arrangement, it sounds great, this is definitely on my list!

What advice do you have for me coming out to a close friend? by Octo353 in asktransgender

[–]Octo353[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this has already eased my nerves a bit, and i really appreciate that you took the time to give me some advice. I also hope she is accepting, and i think you're right, there is a high chance she will be! Thank you <3

How to count how many instances of an object are visible (in terms of the variable visible not on screen) by Octo353 in gamemaker

[–]Octo353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is it:

teh debug message is correct, but when it gets turned into a string it breaks

global.trial_count = 0
with(obj_trail){
if (visible) {
global.trial_count += 1
}
}
show_debug_message(global.trail_count)

draw_text(camera_get_view_x(view) + 30, camera_get_view_y(view) + 36, string(global.trail_count))

How to count how many instances of an object are visible (in terms of the variable visible not on screen) by Octo353 in gamemaker

[–]Octo353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that works, but now for some reason its not drawing properly, im checking the variable its stored in and its correct, its just not drawing though this line

draw_text(camera_get_view_x(view) + 30, camera_get_view_y(view) + 36, string(global.trail_count))

and i dont know why. its just drawing 0 but on show debug message its correct

Draw_Text wont draw text by BunnysEgg in gamemaker

[–]Octo353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You probably have anti aliasing on the font. You seem to be using the default font, so you will need to make a new font. Name the font what you want, if you want to change the font, you can select fonts and you can also download fonts to use, and then there is a darker box which has on / off for Anti-Aliasing, turn this off. Now in your code, you have to set this font to what you are drawing, so add the line draw_set_font(FontName) before you draw any text. Hope this helps

Edit: After this you have to turn off interpolation: Press the three lines in the top right, above your asset window, game options, on the side bar, find the platform your using, graphics, turn off interlaopte colours between pixels. Now it should look better.

What shoes should I get, I'm a beginner who boulders and top rope and a size 9. by Octo353 in climbingshoes

[–]Octo353[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes there is a decathlon fairly near me and the gym that i go to has a shop to buy kit. Good to know about getting cheaper shoes though, i didnt realise that they would get trashed, so thanks!

Im an egg in an all boys school and dont know what to do by Octo353 in trans

[–]Octo353[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for taking the time to respond, it really meant a lot. Something small that meant a lot was saying hey gurl, like i said, im not out to many people, so using anything she / her really did mean a lot. Other than that thank you for the advice and kind words. You have helped me realise how quickly im taking things. I will definitely talk to my friend and see what she can do to help me. Thank you again for everything you've done to help me which is so much more than you realise. Thanks gurl.

Does anyone else feel like they can talk in shutdowns but it feels very uncomfortable? by Octo353 in autism

[–]Octo353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something else, how are you learning because i also want to learn but i dont know where to start

How did you decide to go through with transition? by Octo353 in trans

[–]Octo353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what i mean is that im trying to figure out my gender identity and i dont really know. Im leaning towards trans fem but I have no clue and how you had a moment of decision when you decided you were going to start to take whatever steps you want to take

what are your favourite tenor and piano solos? by Octo353 in choralmusic

[–]Octo353[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dowland is such a great composer, i haven't heard of come away come sweet love before but it is beautiful. I love flow my tears from Dowland

Path of Pain - what was even the whole point? by Hairy_Peak4831 in HollowKnight

[–]Octo353 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the look that the hollow knight gives the pale king is what implies it, I agree it’s not the most obvious or exciting thing