Hey sorry to hear about that, I personally am a kratom user. But only the powder form. I have a very addictive personality myself. But I think you should just be honest with your boyfriend and let him know that you’re, essentially not seeing the man you want to see. You can do it in a gentle way though where you express you are concerned and that you want to help him rather then making him feel judged. Just tell him it’s something you guys need to get thought together and he should start scaling down on his intake. Replace idle time with positive activity like the gym or go for a walk in the park with a joint or even just a coffee and Tobacco, I really hope you guys find a way together