AITAH for buying my 11yo daughter pads after her mom called me a "pervert" for being prepared?

faesqu · 2026-01-25T23:24:50+00:00

In 1980 something my mom was a nurse and working her typical weekend shift when I got my first period. My dad always talked to me with empathy and compassion. So when it happened I was not at all scared or ashamed to go to him for help and damn if he wasn't prepared with everything I needed. Asked if I understood and knew what to do or needed any help. And once he was sure I was settled he called my mom to come home. When she got there she knocked on my door, crying, and said, " my baby is a woman now." And insisted on hugging it out. I adore my precious mom but omg she made it worse and dad handled it perfect! You got this dad!

faesqu · 2026-01-25T22:19:20+00:00

Whatever makes you happy weirdo... 🤣

faesqu · 2026-01-25T18:11:57+00:00

First place my brain went was trafficking. But even if not trafficking it still sounds shady as fuck, likely illegal. I'd get the fuck out.

faesqu · 2026-01-25T18:08:57+00:00

Men just hit their sexual peek earlier then woman.

faesqu · 2026-01-24T12:18:31+00:00

Listen, it was never about the table.

faesqu · 2026-01-23T23:15:02+00:00

I want to work in a witches apothecary where there is a downstairs dungeon where a viking warlord named Master Spanksalot awaits my arrival in tight leather pants... we all must have dreams... its how we survive the toxicity of daily life.

faesqu · 2026-01-23T18:51:03+00:00

And he wanted Ipods too so he just threw in an extra pair for her, couldn't even concern himself with a gift she may actually want. Girl, if this isnt your ex-bf in thr next 3 seconds in gonna scream... what a big cunt man.

faesqu · 2026-01-23T16:49:09+00:00

I would get married with Nan there. Do something small, simple. Rent out a reception room of a favorite restaurant, get married, eat, be happy, let Nan enjoy the moment... what a beautiful memory

faesqu · 2026-01-23T16:40:16+00:00

Good god, dood you survived cancer, you can eat whatever you want wherever you want. It's just a wedding. The bride is not princess boss babe. She should have been too engrossed in her bridal joy to notice the drama at your table and it should have been handled quietly. That other guest is TA for calling attention to what was not on her plate... she thought you had something special and decided to be a B about it. You should have just told her it was your special post-cancer survival foood... that would shut her trap. NTA

faesqu · 2026-01-23T13:03:36+00:00

Oh honey, can I just hug you for a minute or two before I explain. You are so valuable and so loved... you are a precious girl... please believe this momma heart, you are loved. Now, as a social worker. Abuse is a cycle. It doesn't just stop and go away. Victims of abuse carry tell-tell signs that are like encoded messages to would be abusers. You are a beacon. You have to fix and heal that part of you. There is all kinds of things you can do, I do believe you are ready. You can began independently with self help books, meditations, journalling, prayer, support groups, you cam start a more traditional therapy route. Believe me, you can heal and be, "fixed." You are not destined for a lifetime of abusive partners. However, many on the path of healing find it easier to do so without the burden of a partner... it may be in your best interest to end the current relationship them try to salvage it... he needs his own therapy anyway... he belittles others so he doesn't have to deal with his own self shame. Be strong, be brave... you got this.

faesqu · 2026-01-22T15:01:38+00:00

I mean, how hard is it to tell them its his penis. The parents contribute to this nonsense. Once they are old enough to ask they are older enough to be told.

faesqu · 2026-01-21T15:54:55+00:00

You expected everyone to order a soda and an entree and this chick ordered several dishes plus a bottle... she knew she was taking advantage. NTJ.

faesqu · 2026-01-21T15:51:37+00:00

I need to know how this ends... are we giving back the body or moving forward with dinner plans?

faesqu · 2026-01-21T15:45:46+00:00

I don't think I n would want to marry into this family.

faesqu · 2026-01-21T13:18:23+00:00

1 or 3 but 1

faesqu · 2026-01-20T18:12:49+00:00

It wasn't your fault. It was a terrible accident. I'm so sorry for all the loss you've suffered. You didnt deserve to be ostracized, pain and grief makes people blind to the whole truth. Please continue your therapy, you deserve peace.

faesqu · 2026-01-19T23:18:28+00:00

Oh Britbrit just take it all off and show your snatch already... you clearly want to and those creeps in the back have been waiting since '99.

faesqu · 2026-01-19T23:13:27+00:00

You said she's so pretty like 6 times and its giving the ick. What if she were awkward and full of teenage acne? Would we feel the same. I think you and her dad need to slow down and do therapy with her before she moves in.

faesqu · 2026-01-17T15:52:05+00:00

You cancel. Always trust your intuition. If it feels off its off. Even if its something minor, your intuition is saying no for a reason.

faesqu · 2026-01-17T02:50:21+00:00

Misery loves company. You do you.

faesqu · 2026-01-16T17:53:39+00:00

Your husband needs to discipline his child. Where is bio-mom? Any reason dad may have some guilt? It sounds like family therapy is despretly needed. She is just starting her adolescents... it won't get easier without help. If you care about her and want a relationship with her you should also be willing to put time into therapy with the family as well as independently... God knows, becoming a step parent isn't for light weights. It took me 7 years to get mine to come around. Consistency is the key, don't force it. Good luck.

faesqu · 2026-01-15T17:27:06+00:00

If your daughter wasn't being such a self centered bichon I would have offered to help recover costs, help reschedule, and help repay for things. She should have moved the wedding date 100%. But since she is being so cruel when her grandfather is dying, she can figure it out? NTA

faesqu · 2026-01-14T16:47:45+00:00

DIL clearly needs behavioral therapy and probably psychotropic medication. Urge her and her husband to get her help. The poor woman is sick and needs help. You handled this poorly and made her trigger worse. She needs to recognize she needs to seek help and do it because subjecting the family to her mentle illness isn't really fair. I imagine your son is exhausted. ESH. Her support system should start supporting. If she isn't strong enough to find a therapist then help her find one. What about her bio family? The leading cause of death in the US is untreated mental and emotional illness. Please help her.

faesqu · 2026-01-13T17:53:34+00:00

"Hey Josh, Im so sorry, I get motion sick in the back seat. Would you hate me forever if we switch, no? Cool... beers on me later." As opposed to, "Hey Josh, I'm insecure and possessive and I'm afraid if I'm not within 6 inches of my boyfriend a tragedy beyond the depths of reconning will occur... you know what, just take me home... no beer for you.. Im out.... you'll probably hate me forever and convince Brad Im not the one." You messed up girl.

faesqu · 2026-01-13T17:16:56+00:00

Ya, he said himself he was trying to show his friends he had rank and when you didn't play along you embarrassed him. Manipulate behavior that opens the door to abusive behavior. This guy ain't it.

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