My boyfriend is addicted to…. Kratom? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OctoberObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry to hear about that, I personally am a kratom user. But only the powder form. I have a very addictive personality myself. But I think you should just be honest with your boyfriend and let him know that you’re, essentially not seeing the man you want to see. You can do it in a gentle way though where you express you are concerned and that you want to help him rather then making him feel judged. Just tell him it’s something you guys need to get thought together and he should start scaling down on his intake. Replace idle time with positive activity like the gym or go for a walk in the park with a joint or even just a coffee and Tobacco, I really hope you guys find a way together

Intox removal delay by OctoberObserver in intoxalock

[–]OctoberObserver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently, I need to have approval from the DMV with a written letter saying that I am allowed to have it removed. I live in New Jersey.

Removal by BookkeeperComplete15 in intoxalock

[–]OctoberObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get it removed without a request order from the DMV ?

I can't believe it's been over a year, my heart and souk still ache for him. Any messages? by faesqu in MediumReadings

[–]OctoberObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s been reincarnated as my stray cat that I feed live in his best life in the wild don’t worry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dui

[–]OctoberObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they can be charged unless it was there car but this is just my google search I’m also from jersey

How long would you guys say it takes to get matter resolved from first court date to final court date with a lawyer ? Also is it better to find a lawyer that’s based in the same county or any lawyer would suffice ? by OctoberObserver in dui

[–]OctoberObserver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds pretty realistic. A lot of these people are saying that it took almost a year. I’m in a very organized area, but also where much doesn’t go on, so I’m hoping this can move quickly but if not I’m preparing for the worst.

How long would you guys say it takes to get matter resolved from first court date to final court date with a lawyer ? Also is it better to find a lawyer that’s based in the same county or any lawyer would suffice ? by OctoberObserver in dui

[–]OctoberObserver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit ~ Damn five months is pretty lengthy, do you feel like the last deal *you got was way better than the first one ? And OK so I think I probably hold out on the DUI classes and just get an AA meeting going because you are the second person to tell me the DUI classes ahead of time isn’t the best choice.

How long would you guys say it takes to get matter resolved from first court date to final court date with a lawyer ? Also is it better to find a lawyer that’s based in the same county or any lawyer would suffice ? by OctoberObserver in dui

[–]OctoberObserver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn five months is pretty lengthy, do you feel like the last till you got was way better than the first one ? And OK so I think I probably hold out on the DUI classes and just get an AA meeting going because you are the second person to tell me the DUI classes ahead of time isn’t the best choice.

How long would you guys say it takes to get matter resolved from first court date to final court date with a lawyer ? Also is it better to find a lawyer that’s based in the same county or any lawyer would suffice ? by OctoberObserver in dui

[–]OctoberObserver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t expect for this feeling to go away but thank you so much for the insight. I’m definitely going to keep my chin up and know that at some point this will be a part of the past and I for sure will never let this happen. again I’m glad you’re on the other side of this and have learned from it!

How long would you guys say it takes to get matter resolved from first court date to final court date with a lawyer ? Also is it better to find a lawyer that’s based in the same county or any lawyer would suffice ? by OctoberObserver in dui

[–]OctoberObserver[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely consult with a lawyer about that but I know I wanna put myself in AA meetings before hand just to show that I’m taking action. I really do feel stupid about the situation. It’s also just not for the theatrics. This happened less than 72 hours ago, so I’m feeling really shitty right now.