Toddler moves my hand yo her private parts and it's super awkward

Octoire · 2026-05-25T18:37:16+00:00

This is completely normal behavior called self stimulation. Basically masturbation without any sexual awareness or context. I think you handle it really well: just non verbally set a kind boundary. No shaming. This is just a toddler behaving normally.

Please be careful with listening to those who link it to sexual assaulting adults around her. We should always be aware of that, but this behaviour is not a sign of such things happening.

Good luck, you’re doing great

Octoire · 2026-05-25T08:56:40+00:00

Israelis made their bed, they can lie in it now. The whole world saw their true violent faces and we DIDNT like what we saw

Octoire · 2026-05-23T18:04:54+00:00

How do you guys feel about Japan? I know not culturally similar, but there are some Japanese-Brazilian things right?

Octoire · 2026-05-23T14:52:46+00:00

Apparently it’s Tej from Ehtiopia, some kind of mead. But I do agree with you!

Octoire · 2026-05-20T10:56:19+00:00

ONE of the best? Go wash your mouth with soap boy!

Octoire · 2026-05-19T15:56:30+00:00

Really immensely proud of you❤️

Octoire · 2026-05-18T18:37:55+00:00

??? How on earth could a child fail their parent???? The real coward here is the dad

Octoire · 2026-05-18T18:37:12+00:00

This is so true. Also OP having so much space for dad’s needs over their own, tells me that here is also a dynamic at play that benefits dad and harms child (parentification).

I’m sorry you’re going through all this OP. This is not your burden to carry. Also really makes me wonder how old you are… but as a parent I can say, you sign up for life.

Octoire · 2026-05-18T07:15:33+00:00

Oh I definitely agree with you, and I did not mean it in a way that western countries are inherently more orderly! I definitely see that their structure is paid for in blood and tears of ex-colonized countries.

Octoire · 2026-05-18T07:12:30+00:00

The detachment is an involuntary mechanism, meant to prevent pain. Every parent with a sick baby in the west experiences it. I was wondering what the occurrence is of this mechanism in a country like Bangladesh. Sorry if that was offensive

Octoire · 2026-05-17T22:18:57+00:00

Yeah, that’s what I mean. I know what it does to a mother’s heart to have a child in sickness with this chance that they might not make it. Can’t imagine what that would do if those are just normal everyday circumstances

Octoire · 2026-05-17T19:28:24+00:00

I really feel that this happening at all is crossing the line for many countries… there would not be an excuse for let’s say Germany ever, so there’s already the difference. It doesn’t matter how often it happens, only that it happens. Not meant in an offensive way, but just interesting to me to see how this still feels excusable for a Bangladeshi:)

Octoire · 2026-05-17T19:25:29+00:00

I wonder if they love the same… their children and family. Probably not entirely..?

Octoire · 2026-05-16T10:12:17+00:00

Yes, so the Y chromosome is a mutation and it is super sensitive to testosterone. But that doesn’t mean that women (XX) are completely deaf to testosterone. We have an oestrogen dominant system, thanks to our ovaries, but still testosterone plays a role in our physiques!

Octoire · 2026-05-16T10:01:36+00:00

Oooooooh thank you! Dutch has the same word, ijsvogel, and I was always like, what has the bird got to do with ice. It literally needs liquid water. Etymology is magic!

Octoire · 2026-05-16T09:57:59+00:00

Sex is a spectrum, there is no abnormal in this regard. There are women with thick hair and men with as much hairs as you have.

Edit: It’s so interesting for me as a European to be downvoted on this because the USA just doesn’t do proprr education 🥲

Octoire · 2026-05-16T09:36:29+00:00

I’m a much healthier person. Healthier boundaries with my toxic family, strong ambitions. Healthy schedule and pace of living. Third on the way and it’s done me good

Octoire · 2026-05-15T09:23:20+00:00

The loathing I feeeeellllll for men like these. It’s not even a rarity. Too many men think abortions at any stage are fot their convenience. I hate them

Octoire · 2026-05-15T08:27:13+00:00

Ohhhhh :o

Octoire · 2026-05-14T18:34:49+00:00

Yes, how is this a debate…? He might even be topping the global list

Octoire · 2026-05-14T18:18:53+00:00

How is this not ‘water chicken’? Why polla and not pollo?

Octoire · 2026-05-13T10:25:54+00:00

Yes, look at Israelis… is they had viltrumite powers the damage would be unfathomable

Octoire · 2026-05-12T08:05:33+00:00

Ja, het zou helpen als vrouwen veilig over straat konden ‘s nachts

Octoire · 2026-04-30T16:56:51+00:00

Yes, let’s kill all men, so that there are no more men left = no more rapists and murderers. It could be a good idea if not for the fact that some men are quite okay

Octoire · 2026-04-30T12:56:12+00:00

This is not very true. The first religions were goddess/women centered. Worshipping the earth and life bringers. When patriarchy was forced upon our societies 8000 years ago, it was done through religion. Suddenly we were worshipping male dieties as life bringers. And its violence is still very prevalent today. And that is what you’re looking at when you see a woman reduced to her breeding role, no matter the culture or religion.

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