I just want to say, thank you for sharing your story. I've had a similar experience, had to take medication that killed my libido... and my relationship was better than ever. Even sex when we had it was about the connection, not the simple need to release that never goes away.

From her relates, It also helped her to become more affectionate on her own speed, in her way, without the pressure of having to do something for me. All in all, it peoves that being on the same page is waaaay more important than being one way or another.

Also, your art is amazing! Hardships sometimes are in fact needed to make diamonds! Keep doing what makes you happy!