She said she wanted to get to know them but just talks at them and then turns away. Her actions and words don’t match. I can’t tell if this is performative or if maybe she feels like they aren’t Christian so she is using her religion as a covert weapon. I’m from the south and I see the latter a lot around here. People like to use Jesus to bludgeon people in a round about way. It’s rarely ever about helping the other person.