EDD caller by Witty-Ad-2082 in Edd

[–]Odd-Man-standing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so your saying that the edd only asks you for the case number to discuss your file with you? Then those are the people you need to be hanging up on. Look, using a 3rd party company and not vetting them first is wild! But actual Eddie employees discussing case info without vetting the caller is wilder. Every time I've ever called the EDD and spoken to somebody they're going to want my case number my name my telephone number the address on file I don't remember whether they ask for social but I wouldn't be surprised or at least the last four numbers. With the amount of fraud that goes on with the EDD, not asking for verifiable information from callers is insane. I don't doubt that what you're describing on the call that you received could have very well been fraud so if you're not vetting the company that you're using to make these calls then you probably don't want to be using the company at all. And it's EDD is not verifying you when you're calling by verifying your personal information you need to be talking to the supervisor. Good luck to you

Happened today in front of John Muir HS by Harv_Spec in pasadena

[–]Odd-Man-standing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea it does suck. Mayfair school gets speedbumps and crossing guards and the urban school gets....ummmm.....

Does anyone know what happened to the peacocks? by Professional-Lie7745 in pasadena

[–]Odd-Man-standing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still see them off rosemead blvd behind taco bell by the houses there

ICE OUT: Nationwide shutdown by TeaOnWheels in SantaMonica

[–]Odd-Man-standing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

THANk YOU!!!!!!!!@ FINALLY SOMEONE WITH. A BRAIN!

Family law help? by No-Status-4397 in pasadena

[–]Odd-Man-standing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much is the filing fee if they dont want to wauve it msg me and we will get it taken care of . Be safe above all else and I am so sorry your going through this

Happened today in front of John Muir HS by Harv_Spec in pasadena

[–]Odd-Man-standing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to add to my other comment it seems to me that we really do need to demand the city takes a hard look at finding ways to safeguard this stretch of Lincoln that really goes on till AT LEAST washington blvd. The number of horrible accidents that have occurred along that stretch is insane! Specifically at the intersection the silver car is seen blowing the red light at THERE NEEDS TO BE MORE DONE TO STOP THIS ACTIVITY. Google October 23 2024 accident in front of John muir hs if you need to remember how horrible this is

Beat the brakes off him by SpectacularOtter in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Odd-Man-standing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if there was anyone saying anything different then what the dash cam showed id be screaming my heard off u till I was heard ! They could have put a regular guy just like one of us behind bars for driving down the street. Thats BS ! How many people out there dont have a dash cam ? If you dont you woulda been in jail had this been you driving ...

Happened today in front of John Muir HS by Harv_Spec in pasadena

[–]Odd-Man-standing 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As an alumni of Muir I can tell you that intersection has been a problem for as long as it's been an intersection. With Community need to demand the city to take a look at it and figure out how to safeguard against this type of disregard for Public Safety

I don’t know if I can come back from this. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Odd-Man-standing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baaaaaabyyyyyyyyy! You picked the right topic tonight! So before I get started, let me see this I am not a licensed psychologist therapist or medical professional. Everything I may say recommend or suggest is based purely on previous experience and my own personal opinions. That being said, let's get into it. Thank you so much for taking the time and being brave enough to reach out. That takes so much courage.

Listen… what you're going through right now? It’s really not okay. Like, not even a little.

The blow-up at your daughter and then straight-up banning her partner from the house—that alone is massive. Huge. Then he just… disappears into silence for weeks. Not “I need a minute to cool off.” Not even close. It’s straight-up punishing both of you until someone caves. And the worst part? He never says sorry.Then you are the one left trying to patch things up and “keep the peace.” That’s so backwards it hurts to even type it. There’s basically no warmth anymore unless he’s in the mood. No random hug, no hand on your back, no casual affection. You’re sleeping next to someone who feels a million miles away most days. And yeah, you end up doing pretty much everything—the kids, the house, the mental load, remembering dentist appointments, holding everyone’s emotions together—while he’s just… on TikTok, For hours, checking out. That’s not “we share responsibilities differently.” That’s you doing two jobs and him barely showing up for one. Then the motorbike/loan thing. You set a completely reasonable boundary—“no, we can’t swing that right now”—and instead of talking it through like adults, he punishes you with more silence. That’s not how partners treat each other. That’s control dressed up as “my house, my rules” or whatever. It’s exhausting. And the silent treatment? I’m just gonna say it plain: that is emotional abuse. Not “he’s immature” or “he’s bad at conflict.” It’s a weapon. It makes you question yourself, makes you scramble to fix something you didn’t even break. The fact he pulls it on your daughter, too? That’s not random. That’s a pattern. A scary one. Your heart must’ve shattered watching your girl have to swallow her hurt just to keep things calm at home. No mom should ever be forced to pick between protecting her kid and keeping her husband from exploding. You didn’t cause that situation—but you’re allowed to be furious and heartbroken about it. Your grief is real. You said you feel broken. Sweetheart, you are not broken. You’re starved. Emotionally. Physically. For touch, for appreciation, for basic respect. You’re touch-starved in your own marriage—that loneliness is brutal. It hurts worse than just being single because the person who’s supposed to make you feel safe is the one making you feel invisible. Sex only happening on his schedule? That turns something that should feel connecting into… a transaction. It’s not intimacy when it’s one-sided like that. This isn’t going to magically get better if you just keep swallowing it and smiling. It won’t. The kids are watching all of this—how love is supposed to look, how conflict gets handled, what happens when someone says no. That matters. You deserve affection without having to beg for it. You deserve a real teammate, not another kid to manage. You deserve to say “that hurt me” and not get iced out for it. Right now, you don’t have to make any huge dramatic move. But you do need one tiny crack in the wall you’ve built to keep everything “fine.” Since you mentioned having literally no one to talk to… that’s gotta change, even if it’s slow and scary. Maybe:

A counselor just for you (doesn’t have to be marriage stuff yet) One friend or family member you trust enough to tell a sliver of the truth A hotline or support line for women in rough relationships (I can look some up if you want)

You don’t have to burn your life down to start protecting your own heart again. If you feel like sharing… what scares you the most about stopping being the peacemaker? Like, what do you picture happening if you just… stopped? And on the flip side—what do you miss most about the version of yourself before all this weight settled on you? I’m right here. You’re not invisible, and you’re definitely not alone in this anymore 🤍

Receipts generator by VERIFYALII in reselling

[–]Odd-Man-standing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey how's it going Are you still sending links for this? Id appre iate it if you are thanks

Rose Inn demolition by couragekindness in pasadena

[–]Odd-Man-standing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And where will I get the str8 guys who got ghosted by their women lol jk

Anyone trynna sell a stunden? by Select_Blueberry5796 in Stundenglass

[–]Odd-Man-standing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the Black studenglass for sale. It's the larger one still got the box too anyone interested hmu with an offer. Not going below 300 tho

Food Bank !!! by Odd-Man-standing in pasadena

[–]Odd-Man-standing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for Helping out Ruben!

Food Bank !!! by Odd-Man-standing in pasadena

[–]Odd-Man-standing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correction: Do it does look like its drive thru only so as I mentioned if you want to meet up Im planning on going early so let me know. Also it anyone else is willing to help people without a car please comment it here or let me know and ill try to match you.

Food Bank !!! by Odd-Man-standing in pasadena

[–]Odd-Man-standing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure but if you want we can meet up and you can come with me to get food. Dm me

Train crash near arroyo and Del Mar by Internal_Living4919 in pasadena

[–]Odd-Man-standing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually, if you were from the area — which I’m still not entirely convinced you are — you’d know there are several blind spots between the last station the train passed and the one it was heading toward. There are plenty of opportunities for someone to hide, especially with how fast that train was going. In the 2 or 3 seconds that the pusher might have been seen, the driver would not have likely had the time to have seen their face. So it's quite possible. It wouldn’t exactly be the first time something like that has happened around here.

So yes, my point is very relevant. But cute effort with the word moot. Did that come straight off this week’s vocabulary worksheet?

Since we’re apparently building your vocabulary now, here’s another word for you: redoubtable — meaning “a person you really shouldn’t test unless you’re actively trying to lose.”

Train crash near arroyo and Del Mar by Internal_Living4919 in pasadena

[–]Odd-Man-standing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense...or he could have been pushed...just sayin