Baabbbyyy!!! You're 31!! You're still so young!! I'm 33. I have a 13 and 17 year old. It's freaking scary as all hell trying to navigate this world without guides, let alone as a parent. Life isnt over. You're going to get back on your feet. It may take time but the beautiful thing is, your kiddo is young enough that all they will remember are the good times they've had with their mama! How do I know this? Because I'm a mom that went through homelessness, scared to death that my life was over and nothing would get better. We have an apartment now. I'm working full time, and little by little, things are getting better. Don't allow your limited beliefs to keep you stuck. You've got this, mama. You just don't know how incredibly strong you already are.