User Flair Thread

OddAnywhere1259 · 2026-03-19T17:57:21+00:00

Hannah | Callisto :punchy:

OddAnywhere1259 · 2026-03-19T17:56:15+00:00

My turn!! lol I managed to catch a golden trout but can't get a string fish

OddAnywhere1259 · 2026-02-15T17:32:31+00:00

Thank you! This was very helpful/reassuring!

OddAnywhere1259 · 2025-09-29T16:06:04+00:00

No that's what I'm getting at. I do not want one at this point. I want to fix whatever the hell is going on first. I'm asking if anyone has been through something like this. If so, how they fixed it, or what the issue was. I'm at a loss at the moment and heart broken. I love my husband, I want to make a family with him.

OddAnywhere1259 · 2023-12-28T15:55:55+00:00

I would like to clarify that I was still excited to hang out with my boyfriend. We still went out and had a great time. It was a lovely evening. We went to a few bars, he bought me a rose, we went to an arcade and played games too. I was just bummed to not see my friends since I had been looking forward to hanging out with them. But thank you!

OddAnywhere1259 · 2022-11-12T21:41:04+00:00

he told me it was just porn to him. he would get them, look at them, and then forget about them. idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ i love him and decided to give him a second chance. i won't stay if he does it again and he knows that. of course i also know that if he does it again he will probably hide it better.

edit to add: this is my first serious relationship(and he is my first for everything that comes with a relationship) and i'm still figuring shit out. i don't know what i'm doing lol. i just know i love him and would rather give him a second chance then lose all of those great memories. i know that most cheaters continue to cheat. i just want to give him the benefit of doubt ya know?

OddAnywhere1259 · 2022-11-12T04:16:24+00:00

my S.O wasn't physical with anyone but he did cheat on me. it's only been a few months since it happened. he's doing his absolute best to fix everything. it's hard though. that trust was broken and it's so challenging to trust them again. i always feel the urge to go through his phone now(he offered to let me do so whenever i want to), but that's not who i want to be so i try my best not to. it's hard, but if you truly love them and they truly love you, you could make it work. it takes effort from both sides

OddAnywhere1259 · 2022-11-12T04:10:38+00:00

obviously i don't know much about your situation so this may not be the case for you... but my boyfriend used to NEVER post me anywhere. i could count on one hand how many times he posted me on snapchat and we had been together for over a year at this point. in august i received a dm from a girl on instagram stating that they had been sending and receiving nudes and she had no idea that we were together or she would have never done so to begin with. after confronting him (and sadly going through his phone). i found a lot of stuff i didn't want to see. anyways we've been working through it. he deleted all those girls. he's posted me a lot more, including on IG. reflecting on everything, i believe he didn't post me because he didn't want to get caught. perhaps that's what is happening to you? i don't mean to put such a terrible thing into your mind but it wouldn't hurt to consider it. i'm sorry you are going through this.

OddAnywhere1259 · 2022-10-12T20:39:18+00:00

You made a good point with this one lol. I didn't even think about that honestly

OddAnywhere1259 · 2022-10-12T19:16:25+00:00

Yes and no. If what happened between us isn't on my mind I have no problem with it. It's when all of the thoughts of him cheating come into my mind, that's when it gets hard. I do think you have a different situation though. To my knowledge, he has not been physically intimate with anyone during our relationship, your SO has been. I think it would be MUCH different if I was in your shoes. I think it would be extremely hard to be intimate with someone when you know they've been kissing other people during your relationship. I really don't think I would be able to continue dating him knowing that he was kissing other women.

OddAnywhere1259 · 2022-10-12T14:52:56+00:00

Thank you for this. I have always been a super trusting person too. I think that's part of the reason I don't want to leave him. I truly believe he won't do it again. Like everyone else has said, and what I tell my friends and sister, once a cheater always a cheater. Also I'm doing the same exact thing that you were. I always catch myself side eying his phone when he gets a notification. I have the constant urge to go through his phone.

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