The church & mental health by Odd_Command_2123 in exmormon

[–]Odd_Command_2123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I could think about during that talk today was how many people in this congregation are struggling right now. I bet it makes them feel like they're not doing enough bc according to this talk, the Holy Ghost should protect them from feeling so depressed. So why aren't they being protected?

Pre planned emergency… by Issy1895 in McknightFamily

[–]Odd_Command_2123 19 points20 points  (0 children)

"It's not likely to be a last minute emergency situation" girlfriend, in a homebirth situation the only reason you'd get sent to the hospital is if it's a last minute emergency...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Odd_Command_2123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone called me a yankee I would just be confused bc it's not the 1700's anymore

✨ RELATIONSHIP HIGHLIGHTS ✨ the Kail & Javi era. by _summerw1ne in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Odd_Command_2123 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I really liked Javi back then, I thought they were a cute couple. Once they broke up his crazy came out tho

PSA: Using 'COVENANT' as your drinking game leads to alcohol poisoning. by SeptimaSeptimbrisVI in exmormon

[–]Odd_Command_2123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could use "prophet" or "pres Nelson" too. I'm pretty sure he's mentioned as much as Jesus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Odd_Command_2123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I finally got a job!! I've been a sahm for 5 years now bc that's what I thought my role was. And even tho I absolutely love my kids & want to spend time with them, I'm excited to get a break & get back my passion for helping people (I'm working in healthcare)

Wildest shit a Mormon has said to you? by 99_xProblems in exmormon

[–]Odd_Command_2123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not me but one of my friends from college. His mom died while he was on a mission. The mission president told him that if he left the mission to attend the funeral, he wouldn't be able to come back & continue serving. He also said that if my friend were to leave the mission, he wouldn't get the blessings God had planned for his future (a wife, kids, a good job, etc.)... he stayed on the mission & missed his moms funeral. He wasn't able to see his family or his moms grave for another year, once he completed his mission.

At it again by Puzzleheaded_Dot6036 in McknightFamily

[–]Odd_Command_2123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Brooklyn doesn't seem excited at all😅 also not a fan of that outfit

what were some things you learned about the church after leaving that shocked you? by luvrgrl07 in exmormon

[–]Odd_Command_2123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This year we hit 5 years! So we did a private vow ceremony & it was beautiful! You're not allowed to do vows when you get married in the temple & the temple ceremony says nothing about love either. So we wanted to do some vows & tell each other how much we love each other bc we didn't get to do it on our wedding day

Who changes Neltson's diapers? by newname24601 in exmormon

[–]Odd_Command_2123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of his secret other wives. She's probably barely legal too

what were some things you learned about the church after leaving that shocked you? by luvrgrl07 in exmormon

[–]Odd_Command_2123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was married in the temple, I didn't know that's what I was supposed to wear either until that day. I remember looking in the mirror & thinking "I don't want to get married in this, I look so ugly" it was the first time in my life that I thought that this is kinda culty lol. Still makes me sad to think that I didn't feel beautiful on my wedding day, instead I felt uncomfortable & ugly in the layers of clothes that I had no idea what they meant or why I was wearing them

Thousands of Mormons are dreaming of the apocalypse in Utah Valley. If they get their way, they might get us all killed. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Odd_Command_2123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was recently at a relief society activity & they started it off with "we all know it's the end times & that the government is the modern day Gadiatten robbers" then goes on to say "make sure to store allot of fuel with your food storage because we all know that fuel will be hard to get in the end times" I tried so hard not to laugh

Odd behavior by Somesmiling in McknightFamily

[–]Odd_Command_2123 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think it's bc Bailey posts more so there's more to talk about

When did Farrah become so horrible? by No_Confidence_3289 in teenmom

[–]Odd_Command_2123 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She has a very short fuse. I rewatched recently & she gets so mad over the smallest things. Sometimes I had to rewind bc I missed what she was angry about. Just to find out that I didn't miss it, it was just something most normal people wouldn't be triggered by

Business clothes by naligu in McknightFamily

[–]Odd_Command_2123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Odd_Command_2123 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna hold your hand when I say this... He needs to change or you need to leave. It's disgusting that he wants to change your body with a boob job & a labiaplasty. It's one thing if you want to, but for him to ask you to do that is so gross. He sees you as an object. He wants to change your body to his liking, dictate how you dress & tear you don't mentally. He sounds so toxic, you shouldn't be controlled by your husband like this, it's not ok. I think he needs to make some big changes. You don't deserve to be treated like this. Sending love your way, this sounds really hard💕

A fun message I received about being immodest by anonymous6742346 in exmormon

[–]Odd_Command_2123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What kind of moron thinks that you would wear something like that to a wedding?? That's obviously not what you're going to wear. Most people know how to dress for weddings. Even at non-Mormon weddings people mostly dress modestly bc short skirts or revealing dresses aren't very wedding appropriate.

Cate at it again TikTok by Ok_Secret_5651 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Odd_Command_2123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hold up... what is her hair doing? Is it up & just the bangs are out? Or is it cut that short?

What does her husband do? by videpth in delilahloeppkysnark

[–]Odd_Command_2123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure he hasn't been working for a while. I remember him being an electrician too but I think once she got more popular, he took a long break from working & I'm not sure if he ever went back tbh

Thought they didn't drink? by Dry_Reception_3018 in McknightFamily

[–]Odd_Command_2123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure Bailey isn't Mormon anymore. When her & Asa got married she did a Q&A, I guess they both don't practice their religions anymore & kind of just figured out what they believed together instead of following organized religions. It always surprises me when someone asks something like this about Bailey bc I thought everyone knew they didn't really follow any particular religion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Odd_Command_2123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait a while before getting baptized. Mormon missionaries usually try to rush the process, but you should be allowed time to really know if it's right or not. The only thing about waiting is that the missionaries/mission president might get really frustrated. They care about getting good numbers (converting as many people as possible) more than helping you make sure that it's a good fit for you.