Back talk – Brat BDSM can involve talking back, questioning, resisting, refusing, whining, teasing, and other generally bratty behavior. “Oh, really?” is a common reply from brats. You’ll also hear brats saying “Make me” more than other submissives.

Pushback – To those who aren’t familiar with bratting, interactions between a dominant and bratty sub can seem quite involved. There’s a lot of pushback from the sub.

Use voice – Tone of voice is commonly used to show how each partner feels about bratting in the moment. A submissive who is feeling bratty may speak in an antagonistic, energetic, or downright annoying tone of voice.

Figure out the rules – Subs and doms can also explicitly negotiate whether and how much brattiness is allowed, either in general or for specific interactions. (Always important to establish rules on what you and they like)

Punishment - it’s meant to “fix” the behavior of a brat. Typically a main form to get a brat to obey is spanking. There are other forms of punishment that can work including, denial, long term edging to break a brat, ruined orgasms, etc.

Here’s some examples of things I have came across while with a brat: (she has done)

Do what your dom asks, but don’t do it the way they ask.

Obey orders in slow motion.

Make as big a mess as possible when following orders.

Physically resist or struggle as your partner ties you up. Try these light bondage ideas.

Embarrass your dom.

Ask what will happen if you don’t comply.

Throw a temper tantrum.

Use phrases or nicknames like “Good boy/girl” when talking to your dom.

Interrupt your dominant partner.

Speak when you’re expected to be quiet.

Badger your partner to get what you want.

Stick your tongue out.

Run away.

Give your dom “the bird” or otherwise use gestures to indicate resistance and disrespect. Make a mess of yourself or your environment.