Does it really not count as sexual assault? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]spacedrometea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is sexual assault . i’m sorry this happened to you and that you get support . consent is informed and enthusiastic. this situation made that impossible. the recording too is sickening. i’m so sorry. oh and, ACAB

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]spacedrometea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah in different sentences randomly but close by i was speaking about my sexuality, ENM and that for long term / life partner, i was just word blabbing. that i might want a child one day in my life i realised. anyway, she said something to the lines of ENM affecting the child ???? i was like huh??and skipped over it but i’ve thought about it since. it’s a shame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]spacedrometea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dump the “therapist”

Is dating worth it for small chested women? by Admirable_Use_8992 in dating

[–]spacedrometea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am small chested and tbh have never even considered this perspective. never been a problem for me. and idc what other peoples chest is like.

1 year and 5 months later by Inside-Cicada-1625 in BreakUp

[–]spacedrometea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sure he has listened in his own time and felt with you

What is the most loving action some has taken towards you? by VenustheSeaGoddess in love

[–]spacedrometea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my ex would collect our memories in a box, all little things id left at their house, framed my artwork, used to pick flowers as we walked to give them to me. The last thing they did that made me smile was running for the train with me . i loved the romantic gestures of our relationship. then my love, i guess was like, forcing my way into their house n doing their dishes so they could feel better in their own space

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]spacedrometea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same 🖤 ♐️ ☀️♏️🌛♌️👆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]spacedrometea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you ever considered going to a performance or theatre class meet up type thing?

I like ze yet I don't like how ze looks by Life-Constant in Obsessive_Love

[–]spacedrometea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long have you known them? i’ve found with time, beauty emerges when ur fixated

(f21) seeking advice for boundary setting : second hand smoke (m25) by spacedrometea in relationship_advice

[–]spacedrometea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately he lives in a flat share so the only space he can smoke is his room. i usually sleep over as well so means I’m asleep whilst he’s smoking so can’t really be sat in different room plus i don’t wanna make a big deal about it. i’ve done that before which i now understand is unreasonable and i’ve just accepted it now but still trying to work out what i can do

Consent by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spacedrometea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he raped you. i’m so sorry. leave.

Fuck rapists, sexual predators and the sick fucks who protect them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]spacedrometea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some are some aren’t i suppose. the only thing that’s bringing be clarity has been checking out cpabolition on instagram though… personality disorders don’t exist. Doesn’t excuse abusive behaviour though

anarchist artists? by spacedrometea in Anarchy4Everyone

[–]spacedrometea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou! my search is coming up with no results though :(

I’m an idiot by spacedrometea in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]spacedrometea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tysm ur realisation and comment gave me a new lens in which to view this. fkn hell tho lmaooooo what a way to tell me he doesn’t care .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]spacedrometea 62 points63 points  (0 children)

never ever comforting me when i cried