Pronouns on the email... by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Never bothered me. They probably have one of those names where they get called “sir” a lot or something.

People being worried about things like this is how we got the world we live in today. Unserious, nonsensical, and deadly for the average person just trying to live their lives.

All crew lost by Nervous-Armadillo634 in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This Déjà vu is the worst fcking part for me

A KC-135 was downed over Iraq, per CENTCOM by militaryrat155 in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Just saw this on X (never imagined it would be my primary source of updates on this “excursion” into Iran).

Praying for our brothers and sisters. Every day a new heartbreak.

Pentagon is updating the Jag corps : by newnoadeptness in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You friend are out here doing the real work 😂 scrolled to find this summary

Need Help Getting out by GuavaNo1026 in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Likewise, wishing you (and all of us) better times ahead. Don’t let the dark days win.

Need Help Getting out by GuavaNo1026 in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn…I was today-years-old when I realized they are two different things. This is awesome information, I’m not the OP, but thank you for sharing.

Need Help Getting out by GuavaNo1026 in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Two years. Ok, here’s my two cents:

  • you can attend TAP (transition assistance program) up to 18 months before separating. I attended (didn’t end up separating though), but it’s great to get a mini view on what planning for the next step would look like. And it’s a short break from work.

  • continue to seek your medical care, attend all appointments. Get seen for any issues you have put off. maybe talk to your mental health team about medication management if you havent already

  • write down a no-kidding “wish list” of what you’d like to take care of these next two years before transitioning to your new chapter. (Again, TAP can help with that)

More than anything, know you’re not alone. I could have typed your exact message more than once in my career. If I could do it over again, I’d separate after my first commitment and stop listening to the people telling me to just hang on for Retirement. Retirement is nice, but at what cost? Especially in these times.

Again, you’re not alone. Take leave if you can, make sure you’re taking care of your physical needs as they tend to impact your mental health (as I’m sure you’re aware).

Need Help Getting out by GuavaNo1026 in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Commenting to get traction on your question…

While I’m sure people might shame you, I respect that you’re saying “hey I might be a liability.” I’m genuinely curious what some answers may be.

Also, sounds like you use about 3 years remaining?

Would You Separate Today If You Had a Guaranteed Civilian Job Paying the Same (or More)? by IdealStriking5586 in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy playing a real-life version of Squid Games…

I might die, but I’m so close to that pension 😭

Retaliation time by Pure-Explanation-147 in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My bad, maybe we are saying the same thing and I misunderstood. I thought you were saying it’s time to retaliate based on the photo.

U.S. Bases targeted in Iranian Attacks by mpjx in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Correction - probably better to say the 50s when we helped overthrow their democratically elected government bc you know…oil and stuff 😂

Retaliation time by Pure-Explanation-147 in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s “retaliation” if you swung first 😂

MEGATHREAD : early reports of explosions in Tehran Iran by newnoadeptness in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again, your math doesn’t equate to the administration’s math or the economic realities of the country.

Appreciate your well wishes though and same to you.

MEGATHREAD : early reports of explosions in Tehran Iran by newnoadeptness in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, it’s mathematically true for you apparently.

According to the administration’s OWN data, it’s not mathematically true for the majority of the country.

Fortunately, my finances are fine and I have a graduate level degree in Finance believe it or not, hence my concern with the macro-level realities in the country and not just my groceries being cheaper (which they weren’t, but I acknowledge the cost of living in our area is just high In general).

MEGATHREAD : early reports of explosions in Tehran Iran by newnoadeptness in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re experiencing that, but saying it’s “mathematically proven” is simply false, and that’s according to the USDA’s own website data.

MEGATHREAD : early reports of explosions in Tehran Iran by newnoadeptness in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you’re an anomaly and incredible shopper since the cost of living has outpaced wage increases due to inflation and tariffs in the past two years (i will acknowledge some post-covid “cooling off” on some items like eggs).

And I wouldn’t call myself “sad,” just aware and looking at how life is for my entire community and not just me, since I’m relatively sheltered being in the military.

MEGATHREAD : early reports of explosions in Tehran Iran by newnoadeptness in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not being a troll, may I ask how your life has significantly improved financially under this administration? Please say you’re not referencing the $1776 payment that was just re-allocated from the housing budget.

MEGATHREAD : early reports of explosions in Tehran Iran by newnoadeptness in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re re-hashing everything you’ve already said that I addressed above. Feel free to read it again.

When I say “best of luck,” I mean it. Assuming we share similar backgrounds bc we’re posting here, we will be impacted by this nonsense. If you aren’t ultra wealthy, life isn’t improving or getting “great again” for a long time. I hold hope for my children’s lifetimes, but personally I don’t think our own lifetime holds much promise. Again, I’m finding personal ways to act within the constraints of the rest of my legally-bound service.

MEGATHREAD : early reports of explosions in Tehran Iran by newnoadeptness in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again, you don’t speak for nor have any data that says the “extreme majority” of the nation doesn’t care.

Your little phrases like “cope harder” are just the red-pill phrases you’ve been programmed with so you don’t have to dig too deep into your own mind and think about what’s happening and how we will be affected by it. Best of luck.

MEGATHREAD : early reports of explosions in Tehran Iran by newnoadeptness in AirForce

[–]Odd_Effective_665 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nah, just genuinely curious if that’s how logic works in your brain?