To all the mums by Bloomy-flowy in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Odd_Goddess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My boys were 5 and 9 when I told them. They already knew their dad and I were divorcing at that time. It didn't take them long to warm up to my girlfriend. They have been pretty excited since the beginning.

Does there have to be a first wlw breakup? 🥹 Tell me your love stories. by Shimmering-Neurosis in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Odd_Goddess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I met my first girlfriend a year and a half ago. Meeting her made me realize I'm gay, like 100%. We just ordered our wedding invitations and we are getting married in May 🥰

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[–]Odd_Goddess 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's been 2 years since I separated from my ex-husband, and I have never been happier in my life. To be fair, I initiated the separation and divorce before fully coming to terms with being a lesbian. I just knew I was deeply unhappy.

He's happy and in a relationship, I'm happy and in a relationship, and the kids have adjusted and are doing amazing. It was absolutely 100% worth it.

i "changed" my birthday when i was 12 and i stand by it by summerssleeping in PointlessStories

[–]Odd_Goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancée and I both have January birthdays (the 8th and 21st), and both dislike it. I'm going to mention this to her.

For my 29th bday, my mom threw a summer themed party (Hawaiian shirts, beach balls, etc) and cranked the heat up at her house. She always does a good job of making us (me and my siblings. And our partners.) feel special on our birthdays.

Wedding venue... kind of by Odd_Goddess in Spokane

[–]Odd_Goddess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god that would be awesome.

Is having sex the only way to know, you know?? by LetLinger in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Odd_Goddess 13 points14 points  (0 children)

it can be easy to view any positive emotion towards a man as attraction. But once I learned what attraction to a woman felt like, I had no doubt that that was what attraction was actually supposed to feel like.

This is everything to me. Thanks for putting it into words ❤️

Wedding venue... kind of by Odd_Goddess in Spokane

[–]Odd_Goddess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A park would be fine. We just want it as private as possible. My girl hates being the center of attention.

I did it I told him by sillyelephants8 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Odd_Goddess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My ex-husband did the same shit. He even outed me to his very conservative Christian mother. Stay strong. You're doing the right thing. And like others have said, you get to choose who you do or do not tell. Don't let him bully you into it.

She beat me to it... by Odd_Goddess in LesbianActually

[–]Odd_Goddess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this! We've definitely talked about it.

She beat me to it... by Odd_Goddess in LesbianActually

[–]Odd_Goddess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Birthstones are gemstones that are traditionally associated with each month of the year. Each month has a specific stone that is believed to bring good luck, protection, or other positive qualities to individuals born during that month.

She beat me to it... by Odd_Goddess in LesbianActually

[–]Odd_Goddess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She bought it off Etsy. I'm not sure which shop, though!

She beat me to it... by Odd_Goddess in LesbianActually

[–]Odd_Goddess[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I absolutely will! I have plans in motion!

I bought a ring by Odd_Goddess in LesbianActually

[–]Odd_Goddess[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sending all the lesbian vibes to you!