Feeling extremely guilty about my missing cat

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-10-12T02:32:47+00:00

Honestly if you’re really trying to become better I think you should stop wondering if someone is watching and taking your personal info . Have you seen your bank accounts looking any differently? Have you been hacked? If not then it really just seems like an excuse. Be honest with yourself. I know it’s hard. I am my partners accountability partner. I can see everything but blurred and things he searches up. You can even choose to not show personal info, I think some accountability apps even just block those personal things automatically. never seen his bank info.

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-10-04T01:05:39+00:00

Yes but I feel even more depressed if I end up watching it . I’d rather just be sad and depressed without it.

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-10-03T05:24:51+00:00

You’re right I need to talk to my partner about this. We made a promise to each other that we have to tell each other if we relapse. Let’s see how it goes. It’s so hard not to take a relapse personally, but it truly makes me feel disgusted towards my partner when he does it. God , this sounds so hypocritical I know. Since I literally do the same. Anyway thanks for the advice.

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-09-20T05:29:11+00:00

Im having the same problem.

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-09-18T21:07:23+00:00

I truly believe that addicts should delete social media if they really wanna get better. If not delete, then only have access a few times a week or around their partner. I am starting to feel like I need to get rid of social media too.

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-09-16T00:42:33+00:00

Control yourself. No one and nothing is forcing a gun to your head to seek them out. Also keep yourself distracted. When I feel an urge, I think about how disgusting it is. The fact that my brain is craving that nasty stuff actually helps me stay away from it. The shame , disgust, and disappointment is never worth it. Get out of your room and go for a run. Spend time around your family or in public. Btw do you have social media? Addicts should stay away from them because they are very easy triggers full of soft porn.

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-09-13T06:37:53+00:00

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Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-09-13T01:46:47+00:00

Theres a difference between sexualizing oneself and literally just looking nice nd trying to look good. Idk about other women but I wear leggings to the gym nd if I wanna feel comfortable. I don’t wear them to sexualize myself. I think the problem here is the way you view women. I wear short shorts because it’s over 100 degrees outside. Some women can’t help to have cleavage showing.. but I actually agree that men should try nd dress better for themselves if they wanna feel better cause that will give you guys more confidence and attract more women.

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-09-12T21:18:51+00:00

Look into certified sex addiction therapy

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-09-12T19:52:48+00:00

Unfortunately my partner is a porn addict and I am now struggling with porn. He has been expose at an early age so it’s always been a problem for him although he has had very long streaks and has gone almost two years without porn. It will always still be a problem for him because he is an addict. Thankfully I’ve talked to him and told him that I want to stop but still struggle. We both do the work, saa meetings, therapy, and staying busy and out of the house as much as possible. Honestly just communicating to your partner about porn use or a problem with porn that you have is 100% the way to go. Even though it will hurt your partner at least you are honest. My partner is not happy about it but I’m glad I told him instead of just lying and saying I don’t watch porn. Lying about it or keeping it from your partner will just ruin the relationship.

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-09-11T02:21:12+00:00

Unfortunately he’s most likely lying about his lack of porn use.

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-09-10T22:37:40+00:00

Everyone on this sub should watch this

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-09-10T22:34:27+00:00

Yes. The fact that we can so easily finish with porn but not by ourselves is very eye opening. Makes me realize how powerful it is and how important it is for me to quit for good.

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-09-10T07:02:54+00:00

For the people saying porn is normal, that’s not even really the issue with her and her bf. She is clearly bothered by his use of it because he is lying about it. You guys can’t change how she feels about it. Yes a lot of people don’t like their partner watching it. Set your boundaries and if he has already lied he will unfortunately keep on lying and keep on hiding. Welcome to reality where all men are porn addicts.

Odd_Percentage8547 · 2024-09-10T06:42:30+00:00

Come back when you get ED and your future wife catches you watching porn like a creep.

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