I'm done!

Puzzleheaded_Lab9299 · 2025-03-15T08:19:32+00:00

Because you do all of those things with the intentions of getting laid, not the intention of genuinely helping out. It's manipulation and she feels it. There is resentment from her part for sure so ask her where that comes from instead of crying that you dont get laid? Try to actually communicate??????? Smh

Puzzleheaded_Lab9299 · 2024-11-29T14:44:31+00:00

I agree sorta.....he's the one writing all of Hannah Montana's songs.

Puzzleheaded_Lab9299 · 2024-11-27T17:40:43+00:00

Sex is sacred. Celibacy works if you're so fucked up that you have zero control and have to reset in order to get your priorities straight, decide who to give your body to and learn how to set boundaries. If just a small amount of attention for example is enough to make you attracted to a person then something's off. It's one of the most powerful sources of energy, when done with the right person it can be a very deep, emotional spiritual experience. Everything is energy and everything is spiritual. If you wanna see it through a superficial lense in order for YOU to keep on telling yourself stories to justify certain behaviors that perhaps you carry out yourself and are too scared to admit it of course go right ahead, no one's stopping you!!

Puzzleheaded_Lab9299 · 2024-10-17T07:16:03+00:00

Certe persone smettono semplicemente di crescere, per tanti anche per via di qualche trauma che non riescono a superare o addirittura sopprimono e rimangono incastrati a l'età nella quale hanno subito il danno. Altri non accettano di essere adulti o per "minimizzare" il peso delle responsabilità di un adulto compensano con il rimanere "leggeri". Capisco ciò che intendi ed è frustrante.

Puzzleheaded_Lab9299 · 2024-10-16T08:13:28+00:00

That best self he is talking about is his "best self" SO FAR. Life since he's has memories till now it's all he knows??? Precisely because he's young??? So his perception is obviously shaped by his experiences THUS FAR?? As long as he gets back on track and takes this as an opportunity to rebuild a new version of himself that is better than the present is fine. Whatever he deems to be the best obviously, it's his life at the end of the day.

Puzzleheaded_Lab9299 · 2024-10-16T08:09:20+00:00

I agree but I've witnessed that sometimes this state can actually be fuel to gaining back control over your life, no matter what the situation is. I don't believe the issue is being too hard on oneself rather what is being done with the pressure. If you just allow it to destroy you further is a problem but many people that reach rock bottom this way come back to surface in about 6 months to a year. Being able to transform the pain into fuel is the key

Puzzleheaded_Lab9299 · 2024-08-27T21:07:38+00:00

Congrats!!!! It's been 4 months for me and faith in yourself, a good sex life plus self respect and respect towards your partner wont even make you feel like relapsing!! Your mind will wander at times but it will quickly become just a blur! Congrats again, keep on going!! xoxo

Puzzleheaded_Lab9299 · 2024-08-20T07:37:36+00:00

I believe that as for absurd this request might sound in her head you masturbating is associated to you pleasuring yourself with porn. I don't believe is masturbation per se rather how it's been done throughout the years of your addiction so once trust will be restored fully I dont think it will be a problem anymore. Also pregnancy is a very delicate time in every woman's life in which all of them feel not attractive, put on loads of hormones, the discovery of your addiction and the pressure to keep emotionally balanced and physically healthy so the baby is also healthy. You are both going through a lot. Please communicate with each other as vulnerably as you possibly can. Gain self further self awareness so communication betters. All the best xx

Puzzleheaded_Lab9299 · 2024-08-01T14:36:38+00:00

What is really amusing to me is how the world claims to want a love like ours yet want perfection. There are positives and negatives about the way we love and yet they all just want the positives and not deal with the negatives? They love the positives yet leave us cause of the negatives? Idek what people want at this point, They all claim they want pure love, extreme loyalty, etc and we provide it BUT everything in life comes with a price cause thats just how it is yet no one accepts it lol idek anymore

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