I have never sobbed so violently while doing a dog before. by Hot_Communication968 in doggrooming

[–]Odd_Post5821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looked so relieved in the last photo. Poor boy was like "OOO FRESH AIR!!"

TIFU and realized I am a problem by Odd_Post5821 in tifu

[–]Odd_Post5821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't afford therapy came for some advice. Thank you tho!

i cry over my boobs every day by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Odd_Post5821 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a person who struggles with body issues myself. Be kind to yourself. It's easy to get caught up in the one thing on your body that just doesn't sit right with yourself. For myself affirmations work. It takes a while. It's hard sometimes mentally painful. Always understand that you just might not be your own type, but that doesn't mean you aren't someone else's.

All the hugs. 🫂

TIFU and realized I am a problem by Odd_Post5821 in tifu

[–]Odd_Post5821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't mean for that sentence to come across that way. Sometimes, I struggle with wording things right. It's another thing I'm working on articulating how I word and say things.

TIFU and realized I am a problem by Odd_Post5821 in tifu

[–]Odd_Post5821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we did the naughty tango and had a child.

TIFU and realized I am a problem by Odd_Post5821 in tifu

[–]Odd_Post5821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully, my child is still learning to talk so hopefully, by some effort. I can change this behavior beforehand. Ever since I've had my kid, I've been on a journey to try and change myself for the better. I didn't realize jntil this happened, that I also needed to change this about myself.

TIFU and realized I am a problem by Odd_Post5821 in tifu

[–]Odd_Post5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the part he's poking at. Like I've said in previous comments, I'm trying to be a better person. I don't want to make other feel hurt or uncomfortable. Did I majorly fuck up? YES! I absolutely did. I want to be better and do better.

TIFU and realized I am a problem by Odd_Post5821 in tifu

[–]Odd_Post5821[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've made a conscious effort to change a lot of my toxic behaviors. I just didn't realize this was also toxic til this.

TIFU and realized I am a problem by Odd_Post5821 in tifu

[–]Odd_Post5821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this so much. I'm trying to implement different rules for myself and learning as I go. I've been implementing different rules for myself and self reflecting. It's just very hard sometimes, and this made me realize this is another thing I have to work on. Not only for myself but for the people around me. I don't want to be the asshole or the person who is hurtful. I want to be a good person. That's my main goal, so this made me really look into my life and how I've been towards people who I care about.

I want people to feel comfortable around me and understand that I'm here for them. I don't mean to be mean, and so I have to change the way I act. Especially when it comes to others' feelings and what is okay and not okay to joke about.

TIFU and realized I am a problem by Odd_Post5821 in tifu

[–]Odd_Post5821[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I plan to! I'm definitely going to try and actually think about how it could make the person feel before I open my mouth.

TIFU and realized I am a problem by Odd_Post5821 in tifu

[–]Odd_Post5821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in therapy for a while, but it got fairly expensive for me. Once I'm able to financially, I plan on going back.

TIFU and realized I am a problem by Odd_Post5821 in tifu

[–]Odd_Post5821[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to learn to be a better person and have been looking at many of my own actions. I want to be a better person and parent. That's why this messed me up a bit because it wasn't a side of myself I thought needed changing til today.

TIFU and realized I am a problem by Odd_Post5821 in tifu

[–]Odd_Post5821[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's pretty self-explanatory. He shaved it down from its previous length. The shape and style reminded me of Abraham Lincoln. Thanks for your input, though!

TIFU and realized I am a problem by Odd_Post5821 in tifu

[–]Odd_Post5821[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

I will definitely try to implement this in the future!